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thanks for all the feed back guys, I was really worried before but I think I can ween myself off( it's only been a week that I was going really hard) I went to an AA meeting tonight and it made me feel a lot better, there were some really caring people there who restored my faith that people do actually care about others. I drank 3 beers and I'm planning to have another 2 tonight then go to bed and tomorrow night I will cut it down to 3 and just drink 3 every night for maybe a week then two then none, let me know if you think this is an all right solution. Also I really appreciate every ones help so much, it has made my eyes water seeing all the feed back
Not trying to be a wiseguy, but I think you've already got opinions on what the right solution for you is Julius.
Of course what you do with that info is up to you.
I will say tho, tapering never worked for me.
By your own words you were feeling insane this morning after a week long binge - you're still drinking...
how reasonable do you think it is to expect you're going to be responsible enough to moderate your alcohol intake this week?
D
Of course what you do with that info is up to you.
I will say tho, tapering never worked for me.
By your own words you were feeling insane this morning after a week long binge - you're still drinking...
how reasonable do you think it is to expect you're going to be responsible enough to moderate your alcohol intake this week?
D
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I'm with Dee on this one. Limiting alcohol is just not a practical expectation for most of us here.
I don't want to dissuade you from making a positive change but I would encourage you to keep a journal of how many drinks you're consuming. That three drink limit could easily become a lot more if you're not being exacting.
I don't want to dissuade you from making a positive change but I would encourage you to keep a journal of how many drinks you're consuming. That three drink limit could easily become a lot more if you're not being exacting.
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Not trying to be a wiseguy, but I think you've already got opinions on what the right solution for you is Julius.
Of course what you do with that info is up to you.
I will say tho, tapering never worked for me.
By your own words you were feeling insane this morning after a week long binge - you're still drinking...
how reasonable do you think it is to expect you're going to be responsible enough to moderate your alcohol intake this week?
D
Of course what you do with that info is up to you.
I will say tho, tapering never worked for me.
By your own words you were feeling insane this morning after a week long binge - you're still drinking...
how reasonable do you think it is to expect you're going to be responsible enough to moderate your alcohol intake this week?
D
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Who do you have around you Jules? Family, friends? Anyone who can support you through this. I also don't feel tapering will work, it's still feeding your addiction no matter the quantity.. You will find plenty of support here, keep checking in, make yourself accountable
Welcome Julius -
Try looking up "addiction doctors" (there seem to be some in Barnaby, according to Google). It looks like there are quite a few walk-in clinics, too, but it's always nice to have a doc who understands this stuff.
Good to have you with us!
Try looking up "addiction doctors" (there seem to be some in Barnaby, according to Google). It looks like there are quite a few walk-in clinics, too, but it's always nice to have a doc who understands this stuff.
Good to have you with us!
Julius
Instead of making excuses about the wait times for detox and rehab put yourself on the waiting list anyways! All the time you will spend complaining about it could be the time you spend complaining about it until the day that they phone and say "It's finally your turn" if you get sober between now and then great, if not well at least you were proactive and now you can get the help you need. Remember detox is not a miracle Julius you will have to work and suffer to get through your pain, no one can truly stop you except you.
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Who do you have around you Jules? Family, friends? Anyone who can support you through this. I also don't feel tapering will work, it's still feeding your addiction no matter the quantity.. You will find plenty of support here, keep checking in, make yourself accountable
what happened to tapering down to three?
If you want changes in your life you need to make changes, Julius - there's no short cuts.
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tomorrow night I will cut it down to 3 and just drink 3 every night for maybe a week then two then none,
D
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I tried tapering, too, but it was like torturing myself. With all good intentions, I would tell myself: today I`ll just have one glass of wine and then off to bed. Wasn`t long before I was back to a couple of bottles of the stuff, wake up feeling very shaky and sick, so would do it again....and again...and again.
I fervently hope tapering works for you. With your permission, I do have a contact in Burnaby who is in the medical profession and also understands this disease, and can ask her if there`s anything that she knows about to help a person suffering. Let me know if you want me to ask.
lh
I fervently hope tapering works for you. With your permission, I do have a contact in Burnaby who is in the medical profession and also understands this disease, and can ask her if there`s anything that she knows about to help a person suffering. Let me know if you want me to ask.
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that is to fast, I can't go from drinking 12 8 % beers every day (which is probably close to 20 normal beers) to just 3, I am going to have to drink a 6 pack before bed for at least a couple days. and just suffer through the day withdrawals until my body adjusts to that, and then I will start the taper. I really don't have a choice guys I called a couple more detoxes today and I had no luck
A good tip I've often heard said around here is to have an end date in mind when you are tapering down Julius. I know that often people (me included) end up 'tapering' for probably longer than necessary...
There is also the option of home detox too if you find the tapering too difficult.
I hope you are feeling okay today x
There is also the option of home detox too if you find the tapering too difficult.
I hope you are feeling okay today x
I think there's other things you could do - see a Dr, check out a recovery group, investigate the Salvation Army detoxes...
I think you've gone for the option with the least amount of change... which is understandable but not always in our best interests.
but...it's your life J
It's good to remember tho...the idea of tapering is ....to taper.
Otherwise it's just drinking.
I'm not trying to be a wiseguy on this - I've been there, that's all.
Best of luck
D
I think you've gone for the option with the least amount of change... which is understandable but not always in our best interests.
but...it's your life J
It's good to remember tho...the idea of tapering is ....to taper.
Otherwise it's just drinking.
I'm not trying to be a wiseguy on this - I've been there, that's all.
Best of luck
D
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A good tip I've often heard said around here is to have an end date in mind when you are tapering down Julius. I know that often people (me included) end up 'tapering' for probably longer than necessary...
There is also the option of home detox too if you find the tapering too difficult.
I hope you are feeling okay today x
There is also the option of home detox too if you find the tapering too difficult.
I hope you are feeling okay today x
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I think there's other things you could do - see a Dr, check out a recovery group, investigate the Salvation Army detoxes...
I think you've gone for the option with the least amount of change... which is understandable but not always in our best interests.
but...it's your life J
It's good to remember tho...the idea of tapering is ....to taper.
Otherwise it's just drinking.
I'm not trying to be a wiseguy on this - I've been there, that's all.
Best of luck
D
I think you've gone for the option with the least amount of change... which is understandable but not always in our best interests.
but...it's your life J
It's good to remember tho...the idea of tapering is ....to taper.
Otherwise it's just drinking.
I'm not trying to be a wiseguy on this - I've been there, that's all.
Best of luck
D
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hey everyone just an update, I've decided to go to detox. it's 9 o'clock at night here and I am going to go to the ER. They said they can help me detox, I am really scared and I don't have any family or friends here in Burnaby because I'm from up north. I don't know what to expect I'm leaving in an hour
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