Welcome to SR! Glad that you found us! Tucker stated a great list there starting with number 1
So happy that your husband is going to stand by you! There is a lot of support here too-you are not alone in this! Please also check out our other forums- There are stickies at the top of the forums that are filled with a wealth of information-
Keep us posted! Lots of good thoughts as you being on your journey to a better life!