Any Moms Out There Keeping Sane While Not Using Part 12
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I will go see her tomorrow...her H is in active addiction and is of no help...
he is a pharmacist I used to work with ...so sad for them....
does anyone else feel totally alone...like with their H ,,,comes home and is doing his own thing ????
I am so alone here...I mean I have my kids and pets but they are not usualy up for idle chatter ....
he is a pharmacist I used to work with ...so sad for them....
does anyone else feel totally alone...like with their H ,,,comes home and is doing his own thing ????
I am so alone here...I mean I have my kids and pets but they are not usualy up for idle chatter ....
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oh totally beezy. my dh just got an ipod and i swear it's been about 10 solid evenings that he's disappeared to download music. granted, at least these are nights that he's actually home rather than at a meeting or work....it's 9:30 and he's still not home.
plus, we never seem to have "quality" time together without the kids.
that's why it's great when you all are around (((group hug)))
plus, we never seem to have "quality" time together without the kids.
that's why it's great when you all are around (((group hug)))
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Beezy- All I can say is Cancer Sucks!!! I am so sorry for them. Keep us posted.
I agree about the freedom that comes with letting people in on my 'sobriety secret'. I was so afraid to let anyone know. What would they think of me?.. As we have shared here, it's not of my business what you/they think of me...
Every time I told someone, more weight was lifted off my shoulders. Weirdest thing. So far, I have only had positive responses. I don't wear a sign on my forehead announcing it. I choose to tell people when the time feels right.
DH was scheduled to be gone until Friday, but he gets to come home tomorrow instead- that's good.
I agree about the freedom that comes with letting people in on my 'sobriety secret'. I was so afraid to let anyone know. What would they think of me?.. As we have shared here, it's not of my business what you/they think of me...
Every time I told someone, more weight was lifted off my shoulders. Weirdest thing. So far, I have only had positive responses. I don't wear a sign on my forehead announcing it. I choose to tell people when the time feels right.
DH was scheduled to be gone until Friday, but he gets to come home tomorrow instead- that's good.
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i feel ya beezy......i never see mike, he just walked in the door, and now he's in bed.....it's no wonder we have issues......communicate? don't you actually have to see each other to do that???? of course he calls me 87 times a day from work.....but we talk about mortgages......btw....say a prayer....his promotion is going very well......knock on wood.....but the a' hole just screamed at me because i didn't put a pop in the fridge for him.....nice.....
i'm ready for this.....
i'm ready for this.....
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oops--sorry i forgot to say sorry about your friend, beez. how far advanced is it, do you know? regardless, she'll need help with all those kids during her treatments. does she have a church or moms club that can help?'
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it snowed here today. enough to mostly cover the ground and it is sooo pretty. of course, i'm just hoping that school will cancel and we can stay home and play!! but it's probably not enough.
ah, well. there is still the weekend forecast calling for more. YAY! my youngest doesn't even remember snow.
ah, well. there is still the weekend forecast calling for more. YAY! my youngest doesn't even remember snow.
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