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Old 07-10-2014, 04:57 AM
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Old 07-10-2014, 05:36 AM
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So I guess sobriety is for those willing to do the work. I need to be willing to do the work and resist these temptations with everything I've got.

Day 1.
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Old 07-10-2014, 06:02 AM
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Good Morning everyone. Hoping to join the July class. I Joined the April class and after making it 31 days without a drink i choose to have one on my wedding anniversary. What a mistake! Didn't take long to get back to my terrible habit of drinking all day long! I keep fooling myself in thinking somehow i can moderate.

I don't even like drinking anymore. The fun drunk in me left years ago but i kept on drinking and drinking and drinking! Not sure why outside of i am so weak when it comes to quitting this! I've quit smoking, chewing tobacco, other harder drugs, but quitting this is sooooo hard.

21 years of heavy daily drinking is stopping now.

I'm on day 4 and feeling strong today. Didn't even want to post again until i had a few days under my belt...

Thanks for listening!

Hope everyone stays strong and congratulations to all of the milestones reached today... day 1 or day 100!
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Old 07-10-2014, 06:23 AM
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Welcome and great job on 4 days ccam
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Old 07-10-2014, 06:57 AM
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Welcome ccam.

I can relate to not even liking it anymore. My problem is that I forget how much I dislike it.

Congrats on 4 days and keep it up.
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Old 07-10-2014, 07:29 AM
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I will not drink today. Day 3. Trigger time is leaving work and not stopping to pick up some vodka on the way home. I will try to post here first.
exactly my thoughts on day 4. those last 90 min or so of the work day are rough, when I visualize relaxing with my beer and whiskey after a hectic day. approaching the liquor store on the drive home, visualize going in and buying 'just a little' of each. can't really hurt, right?

but driving on past feels like an accomplishment. and once I get home and get some club soda and chocolate in hand I can cruise to bedtime feeling good and proud of beating the av another day. the urge surfing technique has been helping a lot at night.

the weekend though ... yikes, that's a hill I've haven't climbed yet. charting out a plan now for the coming one, which will include this great place.
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Old 07-10-2014, 07:39 AM
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Day 3. Woke up feeling great after a nice sleep. Started feeling a bit cranky after I got going. Not craving at all but I need to keep aware of my emotions and understand how to deal with them and how not too ! Have a great day everybody.
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Old 07-10-2014, 07:45 AM
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Day 6 and I feel a little better each day. Dear God, please help me stay sober today. And help everyone else who is struggling with alcoholism and addiction too.

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Old 07-10-2014, 07:51 AM
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Well done Sunshine

and it will keep getting better .

You are doing great hun xxx
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Old 07-10-2014, 07:55 AM
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Keep strong everyone , use each other , your fellow Julyers who are going through similar symptoms to you .

You all deserve a happy alcohol free , nausea free , hangover free life .

Night all , take care xxx

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Old 07-10-2014, 08:10 AM
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Day 2 going well.... then got given a mini bottle of wine......so far so good its sealed. Plan was to play taxi to family and aviod off licence. Was going to leave purse at home but need it to get cash out for childrens activities...........

be strong, be strong!
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Old 07-10-2014, 09:47 AM
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Petals,

Can you dispose of it in a rubbish bin or somesuch?
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Old 07-10-2014, 09:54 AM
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petals, I agree, throw it out! No need to have it hanging around and occupying your thoughts.
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Old 07-10-2014, 11:13 AM
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Well done Sunshine and it will keep getting better . You are doing great hun xxx
Thanks Snoozy!!! :-)

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Old 07-10-2014, 11:51 AM
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Day 2 going well.... then got given a mini bottle of wine......so far so good its sealed. Plan was to play taxi to family and aviod off licence. Was going to leave purse at home but need it to get cash out for childrens activities...........

be strong, be strong!

Pour it down the sink, quickly just get rid of it ASAP!! X
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Old 07-10-2014, 12:10 PM
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Life is making this tough right now. I was so tempted to buy beer today but resisted. Last week my brother was diagnosed with cancer, and then today I found out my entire department might be losing their jobs as we've been merged with a bigger organisation. I could cry. If I lose my job we will struggle to make ends meet.

If there was ever a time I wished and pleaded myself to believe in God or a higher power it's now. Being an atheist is just so difficult. Those who can share their troubles and will their God to give them strength to get through it are very lucky. All I have is the determination to not let this nightmarish period to get to me. Oh and the fact there's a good chance in a month or so I'll need to be healthy to be a bone marrow donor for my sibling. It's not just about me anymore, another person's life is literally on the line.

Day 9 and still sober. Almost a month with just one slip up on 1st July.
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Old 07-10-2014, 03:53 PM
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We all have to remember that drinking makes our problems worse . . .
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Old 07-10-2014, 04:00 PM
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Anewday think of it this way you are facing a few difficulties and some challenges but you're going to be stronger and be able to face them head on because your sober.

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Old 07-10-2014, 04:01 PM
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We all have to remember that drinking makes our problems worse . . .
A HELL to the yes on that quote.
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Old 07-10-2014, 04:33 PM
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Welcome TXAlchy Gippy and HopingForZen - and congratulations to all celebrating milestones today

Illuminate - when it came right down to it for me I had to be prepared to put in the effort.
Drinking is easy - not drinking is much harder - but it brings dividends.

When you want to drink do you have any kind of recovery strategy or plan?

ANew I'm sorry for the sadness and stress in your life too - but drinking will only make you less capable of dealing with all this, not more.

You are absolutely on the right road - stay with us

Petals - dump it. You;re a non drinker. It's no good to you
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