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Old 11-25-2009, 12:42 AM
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Anono:

Sorry i dont know what to say... so i wont say anything.. have a hug instead!!!

Thinking of you and keep talking please
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Old 11-25-2009, 12:43 AM
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Believe:

Im worried to about you... but i am not allowed to say anything so will keep my worried opinions to myself

Take care my friend
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Old 11-25-2009, 12:44 AM
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Thanks folk for what your words of support last night... woke this morning and definately know i have made the right decision... no if's or but's about it...
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Old 11-25-2009, 03:09 AM
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Originally Posted by HideorSeek View Post
That being said, I am going to bring up Bee's quote from earlier in the day:

The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares. ~Henri Nouwen
Believe:

Im worried to about you... but i am not allowed to say anything so will keep my worried opinions to myself

Take care my friend
Anono:

Sorry i dont know what to say... so i wont say anything.. have a hug instead!!!

Thinking of you and keep talking please


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Old 11-25-2009, 03:12 AM
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HI BEE....................


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Old 11-25-2009, 03:21 AM
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Thanks Donna.

Don't forget the "on the program" part, really that is more important than meetings, IMO.

I am finding my way to being connected to my HP again.
Dont start stone!

you can connect at your meeting tonight too!
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Old 11-25-2009, 03:36 AM
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Old 11-25-2009, 03:37 AM
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Morning folk

Rowan: Uniform.... HANDCUFFS...

Do you like vicks?

I think im in loveeeeeeeeeeee
A match made in heaven
See Ro I told you to watch out for Louis, lol
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Don't forget the "on the program" part, really that is more important than meetings, IMO.
What does this mean Stone "on the program" part?
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Old 11-25-2009, 03:47 AM
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Good Morning

Nels you are really cracking me up this morning. Thanks

"Things might not get better for me, but I can get better despite things."
I love this Nel

Louis, I'm glad you feel deep in your soul that you made the right decision. Good for you.
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Old 11-25-2009, 04:19 AM
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Tonight I start cooking for tomorrow's Thanksgiving Dinner.

Menu - Stuffed Artichokes, Green Beans w/almonds, Candied Yams, Mashed Potatoes, TURKEY, Stuffing, Cranberries, and Pumpkin Pie.

I think I need a refill on the antibotics which I will pickup after work today. Yes still feeling yucky. Hopefully I will get to my BB meeting tonight I still have the committment there until the end of December.
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Old 11-25-2009, 04:34 AM
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dont forget to take the Gizz-Ards out of the Birds Butt
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Rowan: Uniform.... HANDCUFFS...

Do you like vicks?

I think im in loveeeeeeeeeeee
A match made in heaven
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Old 11-25-2009, 04:45 AM
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The first time I cooked a Turkey I left them in. I learned from that experience.

Off to work, not feeling up to it but at least I'll have the next 4 days off
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Old 11-25-2009, 05:10 AM
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Originally Posted by Rusty Zipper View Post
dont forget to take the Gizz-Ards out of the Birds Butt
ha ha Rusty !! I think we called them giblets!

Thats what I will say to anyone who annoys me today....

Be quiet or I will take the gizz-ards out of your butt!!




Bee I never tasted green beans with almonds. what way do you cook those please. also what is..Candied Yams?

we just stick to the ole brussels sprouts!
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Old 11-25-2009, 05:12 AM
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off to walk Dog.......its wild and windy. I will wrap up and have some quiet time with HP
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Old 11-25-2009, 05:21 AM
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Originally Posted by Believe808 View Post
What does this mean Stone "on the program" part?
This thought brings us to Step Ten,
which suggests we
continue to take personal inventory and continue to set
right any new mistakes as we go along. We vigorously
commenced this way of living as we cleaned up the past.
We have entered the world of the Spirit. Our next function
is to grow in understanding and effectiveness. This is not
an overnight matter. It should continue for our lifetime.
Continue to watch for selfishness, dishonesty, resentment,
and fear. When these crop up, we ask God at once to
remove them. We discuss them with someone immedi-
ately and make amends quickly if we have harmed anyone.
Then we resolutely turn our thoughts to someone we can
help. Love and tolerance of others is our code.
Step Eleven suggests prayer and meditation. We
shouldn’t be shy on this matter of prayer. Better men
When we retire at night, we constructively review our
day. Were we resentful, selfish, dishonest or afraid? Do
we owe an apology? Have we kept something to our-
elves which should be discussed with another person at
once? Were we kind and loving toward all? What could
we have done better? Were we thinking of ourselves
most of the time? Or were we thinking of what we could
do for others, of what we could pack into the stream of
ife? But we must be careful not to drift into worry,
emorse or morbid reflection, for that would diminish our
usefulness to others. After making our review we ask
God’s forgiveness and inquire what corrective measures
hould be taken.
On awakening let us think about the twenty-four hours
ahead. We consider our plans for the day. Before we
begin, we ask God to direct our thinking, especially asking
hat it be divorced from self-pity, dishonest or self-seeking
motives. Under these conditions we can employ our men-
al faculties with assurance, for after all God gave us brains
o use. Our thought-life will be placed on a much higher
plane when our thinking is cleared of wrong motives.
In thinking about our day we may face indecision.
We may not be able to determine which course to
ake. Here we ask God for inspiration, an intuitive
hought or a decision. We relax and take it easy. We
don’t struggle. We are often surprised how the right
answers come after we have tried this for a while.
What used to be the hunch or the occasional inspiration
gradually becomes a working part of the mind. Being still
inexperienced and having just made conscious contact with
God, it is not probable that we are going to be inspired at
all times. We might pay for this presumption in all sorts of
absurd actions and ideas. Nevertheless, we find that our
thinking will, as time passes, be more and more on the
plane of inspiration. We come to rely upon it.
We usually conclude the period of meditation with a
prayer that we be shown all through the day what our
next step is to be, that we be given whatever we need to
take care of such problems. We ask especially for free-
dom from self-will, and are careful to make no request for
ourselves only. We may ask for ourselves, however, if
others will be helped. We are careful never to pray for
our own selfish ends. Many of us have wasted a lot of
time doing that and it doesn’t work. You can easily see
why.
If circumstances warrant, we ask our wives or friends
to join us in morning meditation. If we belong to a reli-
gious denomination which requires a definite morning
devotion, we attend to that also. If not members of reli-
gious bodies, we sometimes select and memorize a few
set prayers which emphasize the principles we have been
discussing. There are many helpful books also. Sugges-
tions about these may be obtained from one’s priest,
minister, or rabbi. Be quick to see where religious people
are right. Make use of what they offer.
As we go through the day we pause, when agitated
or doubtful, and ask for the right thought or action.
We constantly remind ourselves we are no longer
running the show, humbly saying to ourselves many times
each day “Thy will be done.” We are then in much less
danger of excitement, fear, anger, worry, self-pity, or fool-
ish decisions. We become much more efficient. We do
not tire so easily, for we are not burning up energy fool-
ishly as we did when we were trying to arrange life to suit
ourselves.
It works—it really does.
We alcoholics are undisciplined. So we let God disci-
pline us in the simple way we have just outlined
Quote from 1st edition of Aloholics Anonymous.


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Old 11-25-2009, 05:22 AM
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have some quiet time with HP

Don't start! :day6
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Old 11-25-2009, 06:15 AM
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I don't call it "On the program" that's why I asked, I call it "Working a program"
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Old 11-25-2009, 06:18 AM
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Nel I call them giblets too.

Bee I never tasted green beans with almonds. what way do you cook those please. also what is..Candied Yams?
I steam the green beans then add garlic and butter and slivered almonds, Yummy.

Candied Yams are Sweet Potatoes - Boil until soft, peel skin off, put in baking dish with melted butter, orange juice and brown sugar and bake until browned. OMG they are sooo good.
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