Originally Posted by k1a2t3h4r5y6n7

but, also from the point of view of a family member or loved one, there are times in your relationship when you need to make plans based on what they say.

if they are making an honest effort to get clean, then i may be willing to give them another (or even several) chance(s), but, if everything they're saying is just hype, it might be worth walking away right now.
it's hard to know when to make that call.




if i had been able to discern the bullsh*t from the truth, then i probably would have left a long time ago.


so, sometimes we kind of have to depend on what they say and "really mean" to make some decisions.