Insomnia
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I have removed several posts that were not supportive.
Mike
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I have removed several posts that were not supportive.
Mike
Moderator, SR
Yes- very much so. I try to sleep when I can- mostly nana naps. I do all the stuff- mindful meditation (sometimes 3 or 4 times a day), journal, see a doc to monitor depression (with a-d's). Plus of course HALTS. I see the intense weariness after emotional intensity as a sign of growth- because I am actually putting energy and action into doing stuff I would historically drink my way through and experience crap emotions that also have to be faced. Hopefully for us, happier- or more restful times ahead.
Support to you, I get it. PJ
Support to you, I get it. PJ
I don't know why it's so hard.
This has NEVER happened before, I honestly don't even recognize him. I have never been afraid of him before.
He physically attacked you and he showed no remorse when you told him about it. He put all the blame back on you. It's not your fault. There is a reason you didn't want to let him in the house. Taking your phone from you to prevent you from calling 911 is also against the law. An alcoholic with rage is a like a ticking time bomb. You just never know when it will go off.
I have been through what you are going through. Many of us have. You can see that we are all ok now. It hurts like hell at first, but you can do this. Can you financially make it without his support? Will you be able to support yourself and the kids?
Don't let locked doors give you a false sense of security. I've had broken windows before. A restraining order would give the police more power to follow through to keep you safe.
He physically attacked you and he showed no remorse when you told him about it. He put all the blame back on you. It's not your fault. There is a reason you didn't want to let him in the house. Taking your phone from you to prevent you from calling 911 is also against the law. An alcoholic with rage is a like a ticking time bomb. You just never know when it will go off.
I have been through what you are going through. Many of us have. You can see that we are all ok now. It hurts like hell at first, but you can do this. Can you financially make it without his support? Will you be able to support yourself and the kids?
He physically attacked you and he showed no remorse when you told him about it. He put all the blame back on you. It's not your fault. There is a reason you didn't want to let him in the house. Taking your phone from you to prevent you from calling 911 is also against the law. An alcoholic with rage is a like a ticking time bomb. You just never know when it will go off.
I have been through what you are going through. Many of us have. You can see that we are all ok now. It hurts like hell at first, but you can do this. Can you financially make it without his support? Will you be able to support yourself and the kids?
One other thing, regarding support. Protective orders can include a support requirement--that he continue to support the kids, and you--to continue to pay the rent or mortgage, to pay utilities, etc. An advocate in your area can give you more details. Just something to keep in mind as you are weighing options.
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Mlo,
How are you doing? I also suggest a protection from abuse order. You can file this yourself at the courthouse and usually get a ruling quickly. I myself have had to file one. This would get him out and protect you along with your kids. This would give you some time and space to decide what your next move should be. His actions are very scary. You are not alone....many of us have been through this.
Jaeger
How are you doing? I also suggest a protection from abuse order. You can file this yourself at the courthouse and usually get a ruling quickly. I myself have had to file one. This would get him out and protect you along with your kids. This would give you some time and space to decide what your next move should be. His actions are very scary. You are not alone....many of us have been through this.
Jaeger
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