Feeling sad, scared of whats next
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: South Jersey
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I'm not the one who needs to be careful. I'm not in any danger. You are.
Even if he only has exhibited physical violence toward you when he's under the influence, the sense of entitlement--heck, he was still "demanding" sex from you WHILE he was in the rehab--is still there.
Do you think he's not going to make those demands when he is home with you for a week? And suppose you get angry with him (over anything--it could be just that he's being a jerk) and tell him "no"--do you think he will respectfully take "no" for an answer?
I think it's HIGHLY likely he will drink/use while he's there this week, and I think it would be a very good idea to talk with that advocate you've been talking to about a safety plan for yourself while he's there.
Even if he only has exhibited physical violence toward you when he's under the influence, the sense of entitlement--heck, he was still "demanding" sex from you WHILE he was in the rehab--is still there.
Do you think he's not going to make those demands when he is home with you for a week? And suppose you get angry with him (over anything--it could be just that he's being a jerk) and tell him "no"--do you think he will respectfully take "no" for an answer?
I think it's HIGHLY likely he will drink/use while he's there this week, and I think it would be a very good idea to talk with that advocate you've been talking to about a safety plan for yourself while he's there.
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