Originally Posted by iSPAZ

Here are some things I have found are much more fun and rewarding than enabling an alcoholic: Roller skating, riding my bike, riding my motorcycle ( I found I worry much better on a Harley ), working out, killing fire ants, visiting a friend, practicing karate moves, playing the guitar, playing with the dogs, listening to oldies on youtube, bowling, playing pool, karaoke, in general taking care of myself. Enabling an alcoholic, expecting them to change and resenting it when they don't just isn't as fun as it used to be once I realized there where so many other things to occupy my time with.