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Just an update. I've been putting "no contact" into practice and so far it's working well. I ONLY talk to him in direct reference to the kids. I don't text him at all. Last night I got a couple of texts from him just trying to make conversation but I didn't reciprocate just kept it to one-word responses. I'm showing no interest I'm what he's doing and it probably bugs him but I don't care. The less interest I show in him, the more polite he becomes. I am just focusing on the kids and homework and work. Lol
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Emmy....When I separated from my husband
of 25 yrs. to return to my hometown here in
Baton Rouge which was in 2006, I met Charlie
a yr later, my now husband. He helped me
with keeping the emotions out of the divorce
proceeding so things would move along peacefully
and quickly.
Keeping the emotions out of the equation
meant not to divulge any extra information
to him via emails or phone calls.
Im one of those that loves to tell a story
in just about every conversation I have.
I had to learn to just answer the question
and I don't need to explain anything.
That for me was difficult, but did learn
that lesson as today I continue to the best
of my ability to JUST ANSWER THE QUESTION
and nothing more.
People don't need to know all my business
or dirty laundry as some may say. Just keep
it short and sweet.
of 25 yrs. to return to my hometown here in
Baton Rouge which was in 2006, I met Charlie
a yr later, my now husband. He helped me
with keeping the emotions out of the divorce
proceeding so things would move along peacefully
and quickly.
Keeping the emotions out of the equation
meant not to divulge any extra information
to him via emails or phone calls.
Im one of those that loves to tell a story
in just about every conversation I have.
I had to learn to just answer the question
and I don't need to explain anything.
That for me was difficult, but did learn
that lesson as today I continue to the best
of my ability to JUST ANSWER THE QUESTION
and nothing more.
People don't need to know all my business
or dirty laundry as some may say. Just keep
it short and sweet.
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Join Date: May 2010
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Originally Posted by EmmyG 
Just an update. I've been putting "no contact" into practice and so far it's working well. I ONLY talk to him in direct reference to the kids. I don't text him at all. Last night I got a couple of texts from him just trying to make conversation but I didn't reciprocate just kept it to one-word responses. I'm showing no interest I'm what he's doing and it probably bugs him but I don't care. The less interest I show in him, the more polite he becomes. I am just focusing on the kids and homework and work. Lol
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