Anger, again
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Lilamy...you inspired me!
My XAH was starting to pull his morning crap, I very calmly told him this morning when he was picking up DD, if he would like to change the terms, he can get out of MY house, and I will see him in court. I am scared he is going to drag it out so I have not been very quick to voice when he is manipulating me, although I shut it down pretty quick. Today I was calm and assertive about it, and good and pi$$ed. I also told him if he decided he wants to fight it out in court, have a good attorney and some cash ready because I plan to take him for all he has and fight for sole custody of my kids.
He backed way down way quick.
Yay!!! Thanks for the inspiration. We deserve better!
XXX
My XAH was starting to pull his morning crap, I very calmly told him this morning when he was picking up DD, if he would like to change the terms, he can get out of MY house, and I will see him in court. I am scared he is going to drag it out so I have not been very quick to voice when he is manipulating me, although I shut it down pretty quick. Today I was calm and assertive about it, and good and pi$$ed. I also told him if he decided he wants to fight it out in court, have a good attorney and some cash ready because I plan to take him for all he has and fight for sole custody of my kids.
He backed way down way quick.
Yay!!! Thanks for the inspiration. We deserve better!
XXX
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Lillamy
This thread sparked something inside me last night I didn't see coming.
It was a timely thread as I received court papers in the post & now know what XH is offering in way of custody issues & what I'm fighting for.
I made a decision.
I am going to fight for what I believe in & if it ends up in a court hearing then so be it.
I'm over 7 years of battling NPD XH & I am now ready to fight.
Bring it on.
Anger did turn out to be a good emotion in this case.
Thank you so much for drawing issues to my attention.
This thread sparked something inside me last night I didn't see coming.
It was a timely thread as I received court papers in the post & now know what XH is offering in way of custody issues & what I'm fighting for.
I made a decision.
I am going to fight for what I believe in & if it ends up in a court hearing then so be it.
I'm over 7 years of battling NPD XH & I am now ready to fight.
Bring it on.
Anger did turn out to be a good emotion in this case.
Thank you so much for drawing issues to my attention.
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