Ended with a bang....
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I am so sorry hopeful. How awful for you and the children. Good for you for getting him out and doing what you need to protect yourself and the kids. I know the hurt must be so hard right now but you will get through it and be better off. So glad you have family support. You deserve so much better. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
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Originally Posted by Lyssy 
Agree with all. Get the police involved. Now. It is time to protect yourself and your children and get an official record of this incident. This may just be an answer to your prayers regarding holding the cards in a custody fight.
So sorry.
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I am sorry that happened to you and your daughters.
I am very happy for you to be rid of him. Disconnecting and the break up can be really hard, but he "helped" facilitate his expulsion.
You and your girls will be okay.
I am very happy for you to be rid of him. Disconnecting and the break up can be really hard, but he "helped" facilitate his expulsion.
You and your girls will be okay.
Praying he agrees to all your demands and that this is the beginning of a better, happier, more peaceful life for you and your girls.
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Sending you prayers for much brighter days ahead. Sometimes it takes events such as these to completely flip the switch. No more. Ever. Lights out. Done. You and your dear children can now build a happy, chaos free life. Big hugs to you.
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Oh, Hopeful, that's awful. Hugs to you and your children. You are so strong in your recovery, I know that you can navigate this rough patch and come out better than you were. Sounds like he made the decision for you. I know you have been wavering and agonizing over the end of your marriage.
On the bright side, I know your main concern was the shared custody and not being able to monitor whether he was drinking and driving with the kids, so this might end up being a big win for you on that front. This guy is digging his own grave with a backhoe.
I'm so sorry that it came down to this. Take care, we're all here for you.
On the bright side, I know your main concern was the shared custody and not being able to monitor whether he was drinking and driving with the kids, so this might end up being a big win for you on that front. This guy is digging his own grave with a backhoe.
I'm so sorry that it came down to this. Take care, we're all here for you.
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Best to you and a huge hug. Nobody could have worked harder to save their marriage
than you did. He was an idiot to not appreciate you.
I really hope the official report on this can secure the supervised visits and custody in your favor.
than you did. He was an idiot to not appreciate you.
I really hope the official report on this can secure the supervised visits and custody in your favor.
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Lots of love and hope and strength to you, friend. Right now, just do the next thing. Put one foot in front of the other. You don't have to solve all your problems, just the next one.
Eat. Sleep. Breathe. Take care of yourself.
Eat. Sleep. Breathe. Take care of yourself.
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How terrible and scary for you and your kids. You did all the right things by protecting yourself. He really showed his true colors and to think that behavior would only get worse. Hugs and prayers for you and your kiddos. HP please give hopeful the strength and courage she needs to face her challenges and continue on her path to serenity.
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