Is this considered having an acohol problem?
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Is this considered having an acohol problem?
So I`m starting to rethink what an alcoholic is. Someone who needs a couple of drinks before bed have a problem? Someone who needs to have a couple of beers to relax when they get home from work is an alcoholic?
define a couple. Every time I was ever pulled over it was only a couple of drinks I'd tell the police officer.
If, you're saying 2 drinks then able to not drink anymore, that to me isn't a problem. I couldn't stop at 2 drinks.
If, you're saying 2 drinks then able to not drink anymore, that to me isn't a problem. I couldn't stop at 2 drinks.
Without knowing any details and with only the information you gave us, there is no way we can know whether they have an alcohol problem or not. I went back and read your other thread regarding inviting someone into your home who recently got out of rehab. Is this connected to that? The replies you got on that thread were pretty much all of the mind that you should not invite someone elses drama into your home, especially since this person has relapsed several times.
Well, you are being quite tight-lipped about the situation. You give one sentence of information and ask us to say whether or not someone has an alcohol problem. Perhaps if you gave some more details we could be more help, but with the smidgen of information you have provided, and absolutely NO details, NO ONE could make that determination.
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anvilhead, Of course I know them.... That`s why I asked. I was talking about my brother-in law, not BF. We don`t even have anything to do with my brother-in-law anymore.The only one who does is my mother-in-law.
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If someone tells me they are worried about their drinking I ask them to imagine it's a freezing, rainy Friday night, it's been a tough week, tougher day and the journey home was a nightmare. But now they're home where it's toasty and warm and they've changed into their PJs/comfy sweats, they're exhausted but can now, at last, relax. They've got a tasty take away ready to eat and are looking forward to having it with the bottle of wine/beer/G&T that's in the kitchen while watching a movie they've been looking forward to. Then they realise that the drink is not there. What do they do? Really honestly do. Shrug and have tea/milk/juice/coke or get dressed again and go out in the rain and cold to buy the alcohol? If it's the latter it's a sign of a problem.
As soon as I started 'needing' a drink I figured it was a problem. No idea why anyone else's alcoholism or lack thereof is an issue for you..but from what you've provided I would say 2 drinks a day falls within 'moderate drinking' guidelines for adult males (its one drink a day for females). But you say these mysterious people 'need' the drinks, so...eh who knows. No one here can determine if anyone else is an alcoholic anyways.
Seems the general consensus here is, given the limited information you supplied, 2 drinks a day does not necessarily indicate an alcohol problem. Does that satisfactorily answer your question?
"only definition that matters is that of the drinker themselves."
I think Anvil hit it right on the head (no pun intended). Great list of qs as well.
I also love the two drink test... If you're honest with yourself it flawless. The only obsticle is one's own denial.
I think Anvil hit it right on the head (no pun intended). Great list of qs as well.
I also love the two drink test... If you're honest with yourself it flawless. The only obsticle is one's own denial.
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If he doesn't think it's a problem for him, then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.
However, this website has some good information for assessing problem drinking:
Alcohol Abuse: How to Recognize Problem Drinking -- familydoctor.org
However, this website has some good information for assessing problem drinking:
Alcohol Abuse: How to Recognize Problem Drinking -- familydoctor.org
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