Reality Check and Advice Needed
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Originally Posted by coffeedrinker 
just want to support you.
i am experiencing similar to what you said when you had very minimal contact you were grounded, then when it increased, your feelings of being out of control increased.
how are you today?
i am experiencing similar to what you said when you had very minimal contact you were grounded, then when it increased, your feelings of being out of control increased.
how are you today?
I'm having a sort of mixed bag of a day. I'm recognizing all kinds of similarities between the relationship I had w/ my mother and my xABf. It's hard to accept how much I ignored, even at the beginning, to try and make it "work".
My real mistake was ignoring what *I* knew, all those years back, rejecting myself by taking the easy "out" of the relationship to escape the loneliness. I never want to ignore me like that again.
I am ok though - I have these moments when I can see and feel what I, and my life, might be like with this ass out of my life. And I know I could never have had anything nearly so good with him around.
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