"functioning alcoholic"
Great thread. In fact we all know functioning A's. My AW was one and struggles with her sobriety every day. I work in the corporate world and most traveling business people can't wait to finish their day and .......drink! Because I have an AW I see so much danger is those poor souls. I like a drink every now and then but in general HATE what it does to people that become alcoholics. It is a badge of brotherhood in the business world to drink and buy a drink and drink a lot and make the early meeting the next day. They are all functioning A's to some extent because they are abusing alcohol. It's all so sad.....
Many of the young software developers (at previous companies) had empty beer bottles stacked against the walls of their offices, as some kind of status symbol to show how much beer they can consume and still get their jobs done. Team events often really illuminated the drinking habits of my co-workers. I'm not sure if it's a continuation of college habits, as most of these guys are quite young, but it's amazing and sad.
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Since alcoholism has a starting point and progresses over time, it seems logical the functional ability would be present initially but deteriorate as well over time.
from living with an aw what i have observed is that she proclaims that because she manages to work etc etc, she cannot be an alcoholic. Part of denial. I honestly think she believes it or at least believed it initially.
Function is also a relative term. She actually organized her worl schedule based on drinking. was able to not drink until the binge days arrived(no work the next day)
from living with an aw what i have observed is that she proclaims that because she manages to work etc etc, she cannot be an alcoholic. Part of denial. I honestly think she believes it or at least believed it initially.
Function is also a relative term. She actually organized her worl schedule based on drinking. was able to not drink until the binge days arrived(no work the next day)
I was functional until one day I wasn't. I don't remember how it happened. I had crossed that line and didn't know how I had gotten there. From that day forward, I could no longer function. It would be interesting to see how many functioning alcoholics are still doing so a few years from now. The progression of the disease is astonishing.
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