hbb

So glad you had a nice time. Can't wait to hear about the next date!

Lilyflower

Cage I am so happy that you had a good time!

I can see this being a problem for me too. I'm already finding myself automatically wanting to stay clear of any one who drinks. Like this one guy at work, he comes in often with a hangover, or talks about how he is planning a night on the booze and I immediately feel like I want to keep away from that, I question whether he is drinking heavy and if he is an alcoholic (in my mind only).

It seems like everyone in the city spends their free time at bars after work, and going out at the weekend for a drink. I feel like I'll never meet anyone unless I'm out drinking too. I won't do that, I've never been a big drinker anyway, but I feel like I've been forever changed by being with my ex. I despise drinking. I don't want to be anywhere near it.

When I tell people I don't go out at weekends and I don't drink much, they look at me like I am odd! I think I go against the general trend at the moment. Not that it bothers me, I've always been my own trend setter!

Maybe I'll join a dance class or something and meet my 'one' there!

Lily xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

i4getsm

So glad you had fun! I missed your earlier update.