Tomorrow is 90 Days!!!
Tomorrow is 90 Days!!!
Hello all! I am hitting what I never thought possible. I am so grateful for your support and fellowship on this board. Without the people here sharing their most personal experiences with and around alcohol, I would not have been able to have the "evidence" I was so desperately seeking to figure out if I really had a problem or not. Of course, I always knew on some level that I did...but before I found this board, the part of my brain that knew something was wrong was always struggling against the part of my brain that kept assuring me everything was just fine, under control, after all, everyone's drinking like this, aren't they?
Since I've stopped drinking, I've realized:
Here's what it used to look like...Friday night - hammered. Saturday a.m. - hungover. Saturday afternoon - start drinking until the wee hours of Sunday morning...completely obliterated. Drink Sunday to make the hangover less painful. Maybe get drunk again, drink until about 5, get hammered, go to bed around 9, wake up at 4 a.m. Monday morning with a racing heart, and anxiety so bad, it was nearly unbearable. Get ready for work Monday a.m., physically exhausted and mentally full of self-loathing. Drag all through the day hungover. OMG - I can't believe I had time for this. I'm getting tired just writing all of this...much less having lived it.
For those out there suffering still - stay strong, you can do it. You CAN. And the rewards just keep coming. Clarity of mind, peace, self-respect. It all can be yours again. You're still in there, and you're worth it.
Since I've stopped drinking, I've realized:
- Most people absolutely did not drink like I did.
- I can have fun and laugh, really laugh, without alcohol.
- I can play and be silly without alcohol.
- I couldn't do it totally alone. I needed SR to give me the perspective and insight that I sorely lacked.
- The people closest to me didn't think I was weak for admitting I had a problem, but admired me and called me "strong" for finally dealing with it.
- Who my real friends are...which has helped me to weed out the people who treated me badly, and made me feel like a stranger in my own skin.
- That I could feel much physically better than I ever imagined.
- That I don't hate myself anymore.
Here's what it used to look like...Friday night - hammered. Saturday a.m. - hungover. Saturday afternoon - start drinking until the wee hours of Sunday morning...completely obliterated. Drink Sunday to make the hangover less painful. Maybe get drunk again, drink until about 5, get hammered, go to bed around 9, wake up at 4 a.m. Monday morning with a racing heart, and anxiety so bad, it was nearly unbearable. Get ready for work Monday a.m., physically exhausted and mentally full of self-loathing. Drag all through the day hungover. OMG - I can't believe I had time for this. I'm getting tired just writing all of this...much less having lived it.
For those out there suffering still - stay strong, you can do it. You CAN. And the rewards just keep coming. Clarity of mind, peace, self-respect. It all can be yours again. You're still in there, and you're worth it.
Congrats on 90 days, that is awesome. Great post, sounds just like me except it was every night with some pills. What we we thinking??? My 90 days is comming up and never thought it would come soon enough. You are right there is nothing better than being sober.
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Congratulations on your 90 days!!! I am right behind you, my friend!!
I loved your post, I am feeling so much of the same things going on!!
Humble, you have also been such a light in my recovery......thanks for being here!! We can do this together!!
Sending love and hugzzzzz
I loved your post, I am feeling so much of the same things going on!!
Humble, you have also been such a light in my recovery......thanks for being here!! We can do this together!!
Sending love and hugzzzzz
Congrats on 90 days! I could've written that post, it pretty much sums up my (former) drinking pattern. Looking back, it WAS exhausting just to keep it up...no wonder I was such a mess! Sobriety is so much more relaxing
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