I think I am the problem...
Can I hit bottom without losing everything? I just can't stop it. My son is hanging in there, but I think I've lost everything else, except my job (so far). So much pain. Sorry y'all, not dealing well today.l
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Correction for you: YOU are not the problem. YOU are a beautiful soul.
Drinking is the problem.
Your bottom will be as deep as you chose to dig it. For some like my XABF it is 6 feet under
If you read throughout SR, you will see that many people (myself included) quit before losing much or anything at all. The BB of AA has a section dedicated to this called: "They quit in time" if I remember well.
You have to make a firm decision and commitment to abstinence. There are many things you can do, many programs and methods and of course, SR is an awesome place for support.
I would suggest that you check out this great sticky by Anna to give you an idea on how to get started.
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...at-we-did.html (Recovery Programs & What to Expect (What We Did))
You can do it and we will support you but you got to quit digging and you have to do the work
If you read throughout SR, you will see that many people (myself included) quit before losing much or anything at all. The BB of AA has a section dedicated to this called: "They quit in time" if I remember well.
You have to make a firm decision and commitment to abstinence. There are many things you can do, many programs and methods and of course, SR is an awesome place for support.
I would suggest that you check out this great sticky by Anna to give you an idea on how to get started.
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...at-we-did.html (Recovery Programs & What to Expect (What We Did))
You can do it and we will support you but you got to quit digging and you have to do the work
The only true “rock bottom” is death of course. You can get off the train any time you like....all it takes is a committment to do whatever it takes to quit
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a) stop drinking now (only you can do this)
b) make a plan to stay sober (we can help you with that!)
Go ahead, do it! Action trumps everything!
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You don't have to lose everything. Hitting your own 'rock bottom' means you've hit the point where you can't go on living the same way anymore - and it sounds like you've reached that.
Addiction doesn't mean you're an awful person, although I am all too familiar with that feeling of deep self-loathing and guilt. The good news is that you don't have to live that way anymore, and that you never hve to feel this way again about yourself.
Lots of love.
Addiction doesn't mean you're an awful person, although I am all too familiar with that feeling of deep self-loathing and guilt. The good news is that you don't have to live that way anymore, and that you never hve to feel this way again about yourself.
Lots of love.
I fixed my self-esteem by doing right/esteemable things.
It gets better when alcohol is removed. It was possible for me to see the good and the correct actions to take, once the spirits were removed.
Today, just for today, don't drink.
Keep reading. We've all been in your spot. There is a way out.
It gets better when alcohol is removed. It was possible for me to see the good and the correct actions to take, once the spirits were removed.
Today, just for today, don't drink.
Keep reading. We've all been in your spot. There is a way out.
You may be able to do a home detox with just some inexpensive meds. I detoxed at home (without meds) and I was an every day all day drinker. This isn't going to get better unless you take some action.
It's worth a phone call.
Here is some info here on Sober Recovery about detox, so you can maybe quell some of your fear:
https://www.soberrecovery.com/addict...eatment/detox/
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Keep coming back to these forums, it's an amazing resource and source of support and fellowship. I wish you strength and peace in your journey, you got this!
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