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Old 10-19-2015, 07:19 PM
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I totaled my car

On saturdaynight......I hit a pole.......I had Valium beer wine and pot in my system. I did not give the cops a hard time.".....they took my blood......a I took a nap........my car is fully covered and I'm picking up a free rental tomorrow compliments of my insurance company. I'm sure to get dropped now and I'll have to go and get a lawyer.......I've never had a duo befor
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Old 10-19-2015, 07:21 PM
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I swerved to miss an animal I never even saw the pole.........I'm in big trouble
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Old 10-19-2015, 07:22 PM
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I'm glad you are okay, Debbie, and no one got physically hurt. Does it feel like the proverbial 'wake up call?' We are lucky to get chances like this to turn things around without major tragedy striking. I know I was.
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I'm sorry that happened but I'm glad you're ok.

I think you're problems go deeper than a DUI tho...maybe it's time to get a robust recovery plan going?
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Sorry to hear that Debbie, luckily no one was hurt (you too!) and I think getting a lawyer is a good idea. Do you think it might be time to stop drinking now?
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Old 10-19-2015, 07:27 PM
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Todos happy......I realize how lucky I was."......lots of people die hitting poles are hurt real bad........I got a bruise on my knee and where the seat belt restrained a bruise
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Old 10-19-2015, 07:30 PM
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I e been diagnosed w an anxiety and mood disorder I take Prozac........I will go see a therapist and continue w soberrecovery
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Old 10-19-2015, 07:34 PM
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That's a great idea, Debbie. Two great ideas!!
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Old 10-19-2015, 07:41 PM
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I'll be more viligent, this is my first Rui and I'm 52. It's not par for the course.
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Old 10-19-2015, 07:54 PM
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If you have an accident under a DUI , car insurance generally will not cover damages to your car( just liabilies to others), even if you have full coverage , this may be a costly education to quit using!

P.S. as posted above, your going to need a lawyer.

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I e been diagnosed w an anxiety and mood disorder I take Prozac........I will go see a therapist and continue w soberrecovery
Do your doctor and therapist know about your heavy (DUI-level) use of valium, alcohol and pot? Lot of times we neglect to mention those things, or we minimize how much we actually use them. They all affect anxiety and mood, too.
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Old 10-19-2015, 10:43 PM
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They didnt suspend your license?? How could you possibly be allowed to drive?
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Old 10-20-2015, 12:24 AM
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Glad you wasn't hurt & glad this wasn't worse
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Old 10-20-2015, 04:35 AM
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Good to hear no lives were lost.

Are you working on a recovery plan?
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Old 10-20-2015, 05:14 AM
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Oh boy bullmas......say it ain't true......about not being covered. I need that money to buy a new car.
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Old 10-20-2015, 05:17 AM
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Wasting life.....no they did not suspend my license yet.........but they probably will once I get to court. It's 90 days in Pennsylvania for the first offense. I have an appointment w a lawyer this afternoon.
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It could have been worse thankfully your ok and no one else got hurt. Still a tough lesson to learn. Hang in there. Hopefully this is it for the DUI's etc..
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Old 10-20-2015, 05:26 AM
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My recovery plan: I'm sure the court will give me one. I think it's 90 days of AA meetings......I was told by my previous therapist to stay away from AA......so I loath to go. My doctor knows about my drug use. He said my anxiety and depressive mood order are bi lateral.........so he recommended a therapist and AA just this Monday. I just want to get this over with.
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Old 10-20-2015, 05:32 AM
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Debbie, going to court appointed AA meetings is not going to help if you don't want to be there.

What I think people here are trying to get at is this can be a real turning point for you.

I know the DUI has your focus now and that's understandable in a way, but looking beyond the DUI to staying sober for good from now on can only help you in every conceivable way - including your legal trouble.

There is some great advice in these links about making a recovery plan that suits your needs:

https://store.samhsa.gov/shin/conten...0/SMA-3720.pdf
https://store.samhsa.gov/shin/conten...SMA12-4474.pdf

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Old 10-20-2015, 06:32 AM
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Dee and zjw.......I know my problem goes deeper than just drinking.......that's why I started to see a psychiatrist.......and it has been helpful. This anxiety and depressive mood disorder I suffer from drives me to self medicate. I'm not so worried about court......maybe I should be but I'm more concerned w fixing myself......and Im just about give up.......I'm not normal and I never have been and probably will never be no matter how hard I try.
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