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Old 11-13-2014, 09:32 PM
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What made you stop or consider stopping alcohol?

I've had many downfalls as a result of drinking. I've been arrested multiple times, was suicidal,survived alcohol poisoning, and was physically abusive towards the people I love.

Through all the ups and downs my mother was there . It was only until she told me that she had given up and would no longer enable me. Some classic intervention **** actually saved me.

What was yours?
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Old 11-13-2014, 09:43 PM
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I didn't know I was going to stop. I was insane, no clear or reasonable thought was in my head when I literally ran out on my old life. I had started praying a month prior for God to remove everyone and everything that had anything to do with the hell I was in. One day I ran out of my apartment and drove off..........I didn't look back. That was 2 years ago today. It wasn't my doing at all, this sobriety of mine was all Gods plan.
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Old 11-13-2014, 10:03 PM
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I stopped because (1) my family confronted me about how awful I get when I drink which I don't remember because I blackout, and (2) the hangovers in the morning that were causing anxiety and depression.
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Old 11-13-2014, 10:55 PM
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Welcome sweettha - glad you're here

I nearly died. That fear was enough to get me started.

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Old 11-13-2014, 10:55 PM
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Sick & tired of feeling sick & tired. The booze actually stopped working for me years ago but I was so addicted I couldn't stop.
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Originally Posted by lillyknitting View Post
Sick & tired of feeling sick & tired. The booze actually stopped working for me years ago but I was so addicted I couldn't stop.
Thank you for sharing this, this was exactly how it was for me too.
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Old 11-13-2014, 11:00 PM
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Originally Posted by lillyknitting View Post
Sick & tired of feeling sick & tired. The booze actually stopped working for me years ago but I was so addicted I couldn't stop.
Same. I was either hungover, drunk or asleep. The hangovers were unbearable so I decided to stop drinking simply because I never want a hangover, ever, ever, again. The fun was totally gone too.
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Old 11-14-2014, 12:20 AM
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most recently? waking up in a bush screaming at the neighbors after downing a bottle of rum and beating the crud out of my knuckles using the walls of my parent's house.
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Old 11-14-2014, 01:07 AM
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My son. He admitted to me that he had developed a daily drinking habit that was affecting his relationship with his fiancée. After much soul searching I realized that I had some unhealthy drinking habits as well, and I decided to quit drinking so that I could be the sober role model that he needed. I initially quit because of him; however I now choose sobriety each and every day because it's the best thing that I can do for myself. In hindsight sobriety has made such an amazing difference in my life that I regret not doing it sooner.
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Old 11-14-2014, 01:43 AM
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for me it is at the point where my health is really on the line...I am not hurting anyone but me....but I would be in real trouble if I kept on sloshing down the beer until I couldn't take another drop....my insides cannot take it anymore.
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Old 11-14-2014, 03:19 AM
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My stomach started hurting and that made me question my drinking habits.
Turns out, you can't drink like an idiot for 15 years without some repercussions.
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Old 11-14-2014, 03:27 AM
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Went to E.R. for panic attack...left waiting room before being seen. went straight from hospital to the bar = 3 day bender
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Old 11-14-2014, 03:35 AM
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I was so tired of waking up feeling like hell and hating myself.
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Old 11-14-2014, 03:37 AM
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I was so tired of waking up feeling like hell and hating myself.
^ this AND i knew it was killing me. KNEW it for a FACT.
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I was ashamed of being a dead hypocrite--and I was under tremendous pressure from my family.
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Old 11-14-2014, 03:42 AM
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I had known for a while that I had a problem and I was just a miserable person. I had tried to quit a few times but to no avail. The I had a freakout, like a reality star diva night after a few too many at a Christmas party and that was it. I was done.

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Old 11-14-2014, 03:51 AM
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Admitting i was alcoholic

Trying constantly to get sober and stay sober kept landing on my arse

Woke up one morning and said enough and i stayed sober

Today i am 16 months sober
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Old 11-14-2014, 05:08 AM
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I was told I would no longer have a job if I continued to arrive at work in the morning half in the bag but I was unable to leave the house in the morning unless I drank first.

Rock => me <= Hard Place

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