I'm A Alcoholic & I Deserve A Drink....
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I'm A Alcoholic & I Deserve A Drink....
Well folks I think I'm going to drink. I recently bought a used car because I got a permit license. I had to have a car with the title in my name so I could install the alcohol machine (of course I could still use drugs & drive). I've had the car since Dec. and hardly drove it. Well, it wouldn't start, got it towed and found out the head gasket is blown. My options are either to fix the head gasket which is a bit cheaper or install a whole new engine. I've had it. I have no coping skills & have no idea how normal people cope with life without alcohol. I'm going to call a few people but probably will still end up buying a good bottle of Vodka. My plan will be to get very drunk at my house and the next day return to recovery.
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OK justfor1...Do me one favor first....Go out your front door right now...Take a walk around the block...Come back to your chair...Read how stupid this sh!t sounds..And get yourself drunk...
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Alcohol does not help you cope with life. That's your addiction talking, straight up. Biggest lie ever. Don't fall for it. You're smarter than that.
Well, since you asked, I think it's a sh!tty plan. Having to have a breathylzer installed in your car is a direct result of a similar "plan". Make a different plan, one that does not involve alcohol or drugs.
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My plan will be to get very drunk at my house and the next day return to recovery.
Justfor1 - I hope you've changed your mind. The problems will still be there after you drink - nothing will be resolved - and you'll be hungover and furious with yourself for caving. It's not worth it!
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soberl, now I don't have a car so I don't have to worry about blowing numbers into the device. If I relapse, I blame it on the used car dealership that sold me a "lemon" of a car and the SecretaryOf State for requiring me to own a car in order to drive. The breathaylzer machine is not even effective because if I wanted I could smoke cocaine and pop pills yet still be able to drive. I could also lie about my one day relapse to my AA friends & the AA clubhouse I go to. They would never know.
soberl, now I don't have a car so I don't have to worry about blowing numbers into the device. If I relapse, I blame it on the used car dealership that sold me a "lemon" of a car and the SecretaryOf State for requiring me to own a car in order to drive. The breathaylzer machine is not even effective because if I wanted I could smoke cocaine and pop pills yet still be able to drive. I could also lie about my one day relapse to my AA friends & the AA clubhouse I go to. They would never know.
One day relapse? Is there such a thing, what's to stop it from turning into an extended bender that lands you in the hospital? I'd never light the fuse, do you really want to go through all of that detox torture again?
I have no coping skills & have no idea how normal people cope with life without alcohol.
Thats the bottom line.
You've been doing this for so long J41...maybe it's time to try and get through stuff sober?
You must have meetings to go to, people to call, sponsor...?
Any one of those options is better than drinking.
I understand it's disappointing - I understand it will make things harder and I understand it will be a lot of money...but it's not a death in the family, it's not an incurable disease - it's a car.
You've survived without cars before.
Don;t talk yourself into this.
You have no idea of knowing whether it will be one night, a week, a year...heck, you may never get through this drink.
It's time to try another way J41...what you deserve is to learn a different way of handling upset and stress.
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soberl, now I don't have a car so I don't have to worry about blowing numbers into the device.
If I relapse, I blame it on the used car dealership that sold me a "lemon" of a car and the SecretaryOf State for requiring me to own a car in order to drive.
The breathaylzer machine is not even effective because if I wanted I could smoke cocaine and pop pills yet still be able to drive.
I could also lie about my one day relapse to my AA friends & the AA clubhouse I go to.
They would never know.
I'm not trying to bust on you here. But I still think it's a sh!tty plan. All this talk about plans and cover-ups...it's clear you're not the one in charge right now. Your addiction is knocking...don't answer it.
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Thanks dee. I have been using alcohol as a coping mechanism since I was a teen. I am in my 30's and feel as if I'm 17yr. I have no idea to live a "normal life". I called a sober friend just now and planning on having coffee with him tomorrow. Thats how my relapse mind works, "just a pint of vodka one night" and thats it.
Please don't drink Just! You are doing so well!
A crapped out car is no reason to drink. Getting drunk is not going to solve anything.
I know you are proud of your sobriety. You are not going to be able to lie to anyone, including yourself about it. It will eat you up.
It is just SO not worth it.
DON'T DO IT
A crapped out car is no reason to drink. Getting drunk is not going to solve anything.
I know you are proud of your sobriety. You are not going to be able to lie to anyone, including yourself about it. It will eat you up.
It is just SO not worth it.
DON'T DO IT
Thanks dee. I have been using alcohol as a coping mechanism since I was a teen. I am in my 30's and feel as if I'm 17yr. I have no idea to live a "normal life". I called a sober friend just now and planning on having coffee with him tomorrow. Thats how my relapse mind works, "just a pint of vodka one night" and thats it.
coffee and a sober friend to talk to sounds a helluva lot better than vodka, J41
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soberl, now I don't have a car so I don't have to worry about blowing numbers into the device. If I relapse, I blame it on the used car dealership that sold me a "lemon" of a car and the SecretaryOf State for requiring me to own a car in order to drive. The breathaylzer machine is not even effective because if I wanted I could smoke cocaine and pop pills yet still be able to drive. I could also lie about my one day relapse to my AA friends & the AA clubhouse I go to. They would never know.
And this makes you feel what? Who are you trying to recover for? Your AA buddies? The car dealer? Anyone but you?
Do you really think anyone but you cares if you are sober or not?
When will you grow up and become the adult you are?
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Thank you everyone. I feel better now that I got it out. I won't be drinking tonight. I've been sober since around Oct. of last year. I was sober 90% of 2011. Of course, the other 10% was horrible binge type drinking, waking up in the hospital numerous times. I had to take one of my emergency meds that my dr. prescribes because my mind would not stop racing. She gives me a very limited supply and I don't like using them but am feeling a bit calmer now.
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