Want to get drunk asap
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: The Great Outdoors
Posts: 1,992
My mood swings were caused by living with a crazy @ssed alcoholic that liked to shake me up and scramble my eggs. Once I removed myself from the alcoholic insanity..ranting and raving...psyco moods followed by manic moves...hell he was even crazy after they took him off to jail.. Once removed from that..I am calm. I am serene. I am at peace. If you are in a position where you feed off of insanity..time to find a new partner OR go it alone for awhile. Also beware of blame..we can find ANY excuse to drink.
Seize The Day
Join Date: Apr 2011
Location: Raleigh, NC
Posts: 32
I agree with aasharon90. You HAVE to take care of yourself and it is her responsibility to take care of herself and if she chooses not to then maybe you need to look more closely at your relationship....whether or not this is the right one for you.
Forward we go...side by side-Rest In Peace
Join Date: Jun 2002
Location: Serene In Dixie
Posts: 36,740
Toxic relationships are those I never find healthy or beneficial
PL...my quitting drinking and joining AA was the wisest move I ever made.
Why wait for court ordered whatever?
PL...my quitting drinking and joining AA was the wisest move I ever made.
Why wait for court ordered whatever?
Administrator
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Australia
Posts: 211,444
I hope you will consider looking for some kind of help for yourself PL...both with your drinking and other problems.
I think 'nothing changes if nothing changes' applies to a whole lot more things than just alcoholism
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I think 'nothing changes if nothing changes' applies to a whole lot more things than just alcoholism
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Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: USA
Posts: 147
I'm going to be the odd man out here, but go ahead and drink if that is what you want to do. I have not read through this entire thread, but just know how it may affect you the next day or days later. I have fallen through the trap so many times now and can tell you that the majority of the time I have regretted it. It's fun (I guess) while you are doing it (safely) but the next day is it worth it? Up to you. Good luck either way!
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Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: The Sunny South
Posts: 1,666
DWD....all of us here have the option of drinking or not drinking.
In my opinion, if someone posts on a recovery site talking about taking a drink, it may be because they are seeking support in NOT taking that drink.
From my experience, encouragement needs to be toward the solution, not the problem.
In my opinion, if someone posts on a recovery site talking about taking a drink, it may be because they are seeking support in NOT taking that drink.
From my experience, encouragement needs to be toward the solution, not the problem.
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