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Old 03-15-2017, 05:14 PM
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We're here to support you Suze, and I hope that you know that.
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Old 03-15-2017, 05:32 PM
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We're here to support you Suze, and I hope that you know that.
Tell us if and how we can help. Every good wish to you both.

Fondly

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Old 03-15-2017, 08:21 PM
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Suze, please take kind care of yourself and pay close attention to your needs. Lots of love and good wishes.
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Old 03-15-2017, 10:12 PM
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We are so blessed to have your love and care....today has been extremely busy but much better.

I will finally have time to talk tomorrow. And I imagine Nick will as well.

Love and goodnight from both of us.
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Glad you're getting settled. Sending love and thoughts to you both.

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Old 03-16-2017, 12:44 AM
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Good for you, Suze! And Nick! Sounds like some dust settling! Lilacs out of the dead land...

You two have been in our thoughts. Love is the Universal Solvent.

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Old 03-16-2017, 03:53 AM
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A day well done.

Get settled in.

We'll be here anytime you need us.

Love to you both.
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Old 03-16-2017, 10:57 AM
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Dear Suze and Nick: It must be quite an adjustment Suze, to adjust to our March (Still Winter!) weather! But I know you have a stout heart and, patience that time will thaw both the weather and any other adjustments you may have, that patience, faith and love for each other will see you through. The Spring Equinox, the official start of Spring, is soon upon us. As Solomon is said to have sung, "the winter is past, the rain is over and gone; The flowers appear on the earth; the time of the singing of birds is come, and the voice of the turtle is heard in our land."
Love one another and all living creatures and it "shall come as day the night" that you shall be happy, one with each other, in all the future days and years that lie before you.

Blessings and love upon you! May sunshine and the love of God light you on your way!

Fondly, forever.

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Old 03-16-2017, 11:26 AM
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Old 03-16-2017, 11:31 AM
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Ditto!!!!!
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Old 03-16-2017, 07:34 PM
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It's pretty much two steps forward one step back at this point....which is better than one step forward and two steps back.

I wish I could say that I am OK.....not yet, that's for sure.

I love the weather....it's one of the reasons I moved here.
And I love Nick of course.
But there are some things to deal with that I didn't bargain for.....and yes, I know that is basically the definition of life, and living sober.

One day at a time.
That's the best I can do right now. s ♥
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Hang in there, Suze...this too shall pass.
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Old 03-17-2017, 04:15 AM
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Hi Suze:
So nice to hear from you and that you're hanging in there and dealing with whatever comes up. As you say that's what life is all about. Good luck on that and the very best St.Patrick;s Day wishes to the both of you. Have you by any chance an Irish ancestor? Mine was named Ambrose Marmaduke Coghill Cramer. I'm going to try to go to the Parade today (why not go yourselves out there?) and then stop in on my two Irish friends,the innkeepers at the head of our street.

Every good wish and a four leaf clover to you both!

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It's pretty much two steps forward one step back at this point....which is better than one step forward and two steps back.

I wish I could say that I am OK.....not yet, that's for sure.

I love the weather....it's one of the reasons I moved here.
And I love Nick of course.
But there are some things to deal with that I didn't bargain for.....and yes, I know that is basically the definition of life, and living sober.

One day at a time.
That's the best I can do right now. s ♥
Picking up and moving to a completely different place with different people is a challenge. Been there, done that. Do your best to make your new life what you want it to be. You will also realize with great clarity what your personal demons are.

I know that when I moved more than a thousand miles from my home town, I was glad to get away from the pain and bad memories associated with home. But I also found it difficult to connect with people in my new city. Frankly, that is an issue that haunts me to this day. I find living in an expensive, competitive large city exhausting. And I am not getting any younger. These days I am focused on simplifying my life, and taking care of, and creating a nice home for, my husband and furry kids.
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Old 03-17-2017, 07:37 PM
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Originally Posted by venuscat View Post
It's pretty much two steps forward one step back at this point....which is better than one step forward and two steps back.

I wish I could say that I am OK.....not yet, that's for sure.

I love the weather....it's one of the reasons I moved here.
And I love Nick of course.
But there are some things to deal with that I didn't bargain for.....and yes, I know that is basically the definition of life, and living sober.

One day at a time.
That's the best I can do right now. s ♥
Suze, I know you have had to put up with way more issues from me than you ever bargained for. From the beginning, you have given this everything, and at the same time you have always been there with love and compassion and caring.

And in response... You have a man who needs work, who disappears emotionally, who often trips over your feelings, who inadvertently hurts you. A man who has been badly mistreated in the past and is having more trouble than he should growing past that.

But you also have a man who loves you more than anything in the world, who would do anything for you, who will love you forever and will *never* give up.

I love you completely, forever, with all of me.
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