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Old 12-14-2012, 11:57 PM
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Interesting article on addiction from a Buddhism perspective

Addiction: A Zen Perspective | Psychology Today
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Old 12-15-2012, 06:42 AM
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That was interesting...thanks!
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Old 12-15-2012, 06:49 AM
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"From a Buddhist perspective, addiction might be considered the archetype of attachment. Addiction is, in fact, a collection of attachments."

HaHa! Just I thought. The real goal of recovery is Spiritual Detachment. "Que Sera, Sera (Whatever Will Be, Will Be)"

When I detach from the outcome and all expectations, nothing disturbs me enough that I feel like I need to drink or use drugs.
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In letting go of our attachments we also let go of the things that influence us and draw us into a state of mind where we feel less than we are, where we feel that something is missing, where we need to fill the space, or dampen the pain, or simply make it go away.
Good stuff! Thanks for sharing this, backbeat.
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Great article to concisely explain it all.
Thank you for posting....its so basic.
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Within the context of addiction, people often feel that they do not have a choice. Nothing could be further from the truth. We always have a choice.
yep...

Good article. I like a lot of it. It's important to note that this is one author's interpretation.

It is within the attachment that we invite suffering. I think it's interesting to see that across time and religions you see the practice of "giving up" things or sacrificing over and over again.

A friend of mine and I were talking about his love life and he said, "I've decided I'm not going to be in a relationship with just one person. It's not good for me to be attached"
I told him it appears he has an attachment to non-attachment....
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Originally Posted by soberlicious View Post
A friend of mine and I were talking about his love life and he said, "I've decided I'm not going to be in a relationship with just one person. It's not good for me to be attached"
I told him it appears he has an attachment to non-attachment....
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Originally Posted by soberlicious View Post
Within the context of addiction, people often feel that they do not have a choice. Nothing could be further from the truth. We always have a choice.
I no longer have a choice. I lost the power of choice somewhere along the line while drinking. I still have no choice thanks to the 10th step promise:

"We are not fighting it, neither are we avoiding temptation. We feel as though we had been placed in a position of neutrality - safe and protected. We have not even sworn off. Instead, the problem has been removed. It does not exist for us. "

In order for me to choose, I would have to think about drinking and not-drinking and choose between the two. I don't think about either. Therefor I can "choose neither".

Buddha spoke of the Middle Way. Within the context of choice that suggests that if we are present in the moment, our choices are constant. We do not, then, go right or left, say yes or no, think good or bad, or see black or white; rather, we are aware that both opportunities are presenting themselves, we recognize this and acknowledge it, then choose neither.
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That quote wasn't mine, it was from the article.

In choosing neither, we are still making a choice. As the author said, addiction robs us of that. When in active addiction, we are not able to "choose neither".
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In choosing neither, we are still making a choice. As the author said, addiction robs us of that. When in active addiction, we are not able to "choose neither".
For me, "choosing neither" is my default choice.

I don't think about using
I don't think about choosing
I don't think about winning
I don't think about loosing.

"Ah-Ah, we don't go there"
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LMAO
Love it!
Actually I'm a huge fan of "just stop it"
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Oh my......that is hysterical! Thanks for the laugh
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I really enjoyed the article......and the video as well!
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