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Old 03-27-2024, 10:15 AM
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PS steely:I'm thrilled your daughter is doing better these days btw.

I know I can be hard to handle at times and I'm complaint with my meds, so I can imagine your daughter on a bad day is.a handful.
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Thanks Freedom.

It is so good when my daughter is well. Such a gentle soul.

The illness is cruel.


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Old 03-27-2024, 06:13 PM
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Wrapping up day 14. Been a trying week for a number of reasons but I’m proud to have made it back to this modest milestone. Going to hit the pillow sober and that’s the most important thing right now. I’m committed to 24 more.

Have a great rest of your day all!
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Old 03-28-2024, 02:37 AM
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Congratulations Bassetdog. Is very comforting to hear of your achievements. Stay close and keep positive. It gets better every day.

Pledging for today. Day 542.
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Old 03-28-2024, 03:16 AM
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Congrats to everyone on another sober day

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Old 03-28-2024, 04:54 AM
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Congratulations Bassetdog. Is very comforting to hear of your achievements. Stay close and keep positive. It gets better every day.

Pledging for today. Day 542.
Thanks Runner! I am truly trying to take it a day at a time and doing whatever I need to not to pick up that first drink. Congrats to you and your impressive day count! Keep up the great work.

I’m pledging for 24 more with you all. I won’t be picking up that first drink today. Hope you all have a great day!
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Old 03-28-2024, 09:40 AM
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Hello everyone!

I had a few days of insomnia. That REALLY sucked.Still better than broken drunk sleep.

Day 46
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Old 03-28-2024, 03:09 PM
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way to go BassetDog and Alessandra - hope the insomnia is gone

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Old 03-28-2024, 04:54 PM
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BassetDog, Day 14 is a great milestone! Well done.
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Old 03-28-2024, 05:33 PM
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BassetDog, Day 14 is a great milestone! Well done.
Thanks Anna!! I actually hit day 15 today ODAAT. Thank you for always having words of encouragement
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Old 03-28-2024, 07:08 PM
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Congrats BassetDog and Alessandra on you sober days. I'm on day 46. Couldn't be more thankful for not picking up a drink.

Now, since I'm starting to learn my deeper triggers, aspects of my life are revealing them to me with more clarity. I'm also gaining awareness of what are my issues and what are other people's issues and who and what I'm going tolerate. When I was perpetually drunk and hungover, all I was mired in self-loathing and self-blame. I had zero self-confidence. This state of being made me a magnet for mistreatment by some. I'm not getting sober and staying sober to tolerate abuse. It's just not happening. Sobriety is about self-empowerment too.

Onto to our next 24 hours sober!
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Old 03-28-2024, 07:44 PM
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Onwards listae!

Standing tall. Proud of ourselves.

I just stood up for myself again. Ten minutes ago

Usually I’d just concede so as not to cause argument. Stood my ground, and there was no argument.

I handled it because I’m sober, and I learn things here that has me know I am not alone.

Thank you all.
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good for you listae and Steely

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Old 03-28-2024, 09:17 PM
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Onwards listae!

Standing tall. Proud of ourselves.

I just stood up for myself again. Ten minutes ago

Usually I’d just concede so as not to cause argument. Stood my ground, and there was no argument.

I handled it because I’m sober, and I learn things here that has me know I am not alone.

Thank you all.
Lets stand tall together in sobriety Steely!
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Well done everyone, for days spent sober, for standing up for yourselves, for being strong peeps.
Thanks for being an important part of my recovery.
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Old 03-29-2024, 12:06 AM
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My quote from early Mar, "In for another weekend! Lots of pre-travel and other stressors yesterday. My wife and I are heading to NZ and Oz on Wednesday for two weeks. First time there. Had to get the NZ and Oz visas in order..." I made it through my trip to Aus and NZ. What a great time. We went out to an "Irish" bar in Sydney on Paddy's day for our 40th anniversary. It was interesting to people watch. I saw bits of my previous life in many people. Glad I'm where I am now.
It was a bit strange going from fall to spring in a short time. This would be one of the times I'd like to have had a "transporter" (a-la Star Trek). 35 hours there and 40+ hours back total travel time...
Be well all. N2C
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Old 03-29-2024, 12:42 AM
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Lets stand tall together in sobriety Steely!
That’s our goal listae. And we’re doing it!

Best thing, ever.
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Glad you enjoyed your trip needingtochange - gladder still your recovery is strong and intact - welcome back
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Old 03-29-2024, 01:18 AM
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I had to see my probation officer yesterday and for whatever reason my AV came on very strong Wednesday night and I folded. Feel so weak and stupid. I told him I drank the day before but he could smell it anyway so it's good I was upfront. Starting the 90 in 90 again today. He encouraged me to connect with Merchants Quay which I did yesterday. They want me to ring again Tuesday when some lady isn't on annual leave. Maybe they can help. I feel so angry at myself. I lost my debit card but there's no money on it anyway. Today is day 2. I hate making these relapse posts.
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Old 03-29-2024, 01:35 AM
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I think I have to accept non-alcohol drugs are just a gateway to alcohol and resulting chaos and misery.
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