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Old 08-15-2023, 11:31 PM
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Old 08-15-2023, 11:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Venecia View Post
I haven't had a drink in 10 years, as of today. It feels good.

A decade of sobriety is a curious milestone. On one hand, addiction seems like a lifetime ago in a different country. On the other hand, enough of it -- the hangovers, auto-pilot to the liquor store -- stays vivid enough in my memory to keep me humble. Gratitude anchors me.

My fervent wish for all here is that you find the peace made possible by sobriety. No matter how pummeled you may feel, please hold on. Follow the guidepost at the crossroads; you can do this.

Thank you, as always, to Dee and Anna and everyone at Sober Recovery. You are heroes.

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Old 08-16-2023, 01:34 AM
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Congratulations on a decade of sobriety and thanks for a great post too! 🙏
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Old 08-16-2023, 03:44 AM
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I’m 5 years and 5 months behind 🤣 although I’m not counting chickens. None of us are exempt from relapses.

But I digress. Well done on a decade sober, Venecia 🙂
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Old 08-16-2023, 05:03 AM
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Yes, 10 years is a big one. Congratulations. But it's more than just 10 years. It's an accumulation of lovely sober experiences that were unobtainable at one time. I'm kind of like you in that I remember that guy in the past who got drunk every night, but it seems like I'm remembering someone else. I'm so much different than that guy now that it seems like it wasn't really me... except that it was.
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Old 08-16-2023, 05:58 AM
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Thank you, Adv. I'm grateful that this journey connected us!

You are a good counsel to those working to get there and stay there.

All the best!
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Way to go! Can you list some of the benefits you experienced over the years?
Thank you!

The benefits certainly evolve over the years. I feel like I'm still growing as a person, whereas in the past I was just stuck. Random other thoughts:

- Autonomy is huge. I am no longer governed by a substance and I cannot begin to tell you how much that helps us.
- Keeping the work going. I started counseling with a really good psychologist and it made such a difference. Professional counseling has concluded for me, but I also know that if I need help, reaching out is the next step.

The other thing is that, about three years ago, I began meditation. I believe Anna is a proponent, too. I cannot recommend it strongly enough and it's free! A couple recommendations are "Headspace" on Netflix and the website "Ten Percent Happier." The Cleveland Clinic also has excellent resources at https://my.clevelandclinic.org/healt...906-meditation
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Old 08-16-2023, 08:56 AM
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Originally Posted by Venecia View Post
I haven't had a drink in 10 years, as of today. It feels good.

A decade of sobriety is a curious milestone. On one hand, addiction seems like a lifetime ago in a different country. On the other hand, enough of it -- the hangovers, auto-pilot to the liquor store -- stays vivid enough in my memory to keep me humble. Gratitude anchors me.

My fervent wish for all here is that you find the peace made possible by sobriety. No matter how pummeled you may feel, please hold on. Follow the guidepost at the crossroads; you can do this.

Thank you, as always, to Dee and Anna and everyone at Sober Recovery. You are heroes.

Allison
Freakin' FANTABULOUS!!!

Congratulations. That's a remarkable, amazing and awesome milestone.

Thank you for sharing.

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Old 08-16-2023, 09:16 AM
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Congratulations Allison, what a super milestone.

Thank you for being such a splendid source of helpful advice and encouragement, especially in my early days.

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Congrats on 10 years, great work.
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Old 08-16-2023, 03:55 PM
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Congratulations on 10 years of sobriety Venecia!
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Old 08-16-2023, 06:56 PM
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Wow. Just wow…
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Old 08-16-2023, 07:27 PM
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Venecia, thanks for the wonderful update, and inspiring post.

Huge congrats on 10 years 🎊🎉♥️🤓
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