Farewell to all that.....
Farewell to all that.....
Hello fellow travellers.
Had to tell a neighbour to F off in all of the very best of ways.
She's a bully when she chooses, and a bit of a stand over merchant when she wants. I'd had enough.
I've expressed my misgivings a couple of times, but she returns to the Harpie in her every time. It's 'orrible.
I'm having nothing further to do with her. Again, in the best possible way.
And that shouldn't be too hard because I'm a nice person.
It feels really good. I saw her for what she is, and myself for what I am. I acted accordingly.
Sober gave me the opportunity.
Had to tell a neighbour to F off in all of the very best of ways.
She's a bully when she chooses, and a bit of a stand over merchant when she wants. I'd had enough.
I've expressed my misgivings a couple of times, but she returns to the Harpie in her every time. It's 'orrible.
I'm having nothing further to do with her. Again, in the best possible way.
And that shouldn't be too hard because I'm a nice person.
It feels really good. I saw her for what she is, and myself for what I am. I acted accordingly.
Sober gave me the opportunity.
Steely - I'm glad you took care of that situation. I'm no good at confrontations, but sometimes there's no other way.
No reason why we should have to tolerate someone who causes us misery.
Nice job.
No reason why we should have to tolerate someone who causes us misery.
Nice job.
True too true! Too much niceness can sometimes be construed as a walk all over me mat.A kind assertiveness (hard as it may be) is the way to go.
" Do not light a furnace so hot that you yourself do singe" Shakespeare.
" Do not light a furnace so hot that you yourself do singe" Shakespeare.
Well done for standing your ground and for saying what you needed to say Steely. The alternative would be to say nothing and to then let anger and resentment fester inside your mind - not very conducive to a sober way of thinking.
All of what y'all have said is true and gives me greater confidence. Thank you.
I loved the quote from Shakespeare Bubovski. I'll remember it forever. You'd think I'd know it hey, what with my broiling crucible avatar. 🔥
I loved the quote from Shakespeare Bubovski. I'll remember it forever. You'd think I'd know it hey, what with my broiling crucible avatar. 🔥
Good for you Steely, and I too am not one for confrontation. I like what Least said about being assertive, so very true. I am rarely that way and when I do confront, it takes people back a few steps because I am never that way at all. Being sober definitely has helped.
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