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Old 01-18-2023, 04:54 PM
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Congrats on two weeks, Wes! That's great work- be proud and keep on keepin' on.
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Old 01-18-2023, 05:55 PM
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2 weeks! That is so wonderful, Wes.
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Old 01-19-2023, 03:07 AM
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Well done Wes
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Old 01-20-2023, 05:43 AM
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Thanks guys 😀

@Hodd, you're totally right, I went to the gym yesterday for a (very) gentle workout and felt so good afterwards. I didn't realise how much I missed the rush you can get from a bit of exercise.

Bit sore today right enough but totally worth it.
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Old 01-20-2023, 10:21 AM
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That’s great, Wes. You’ve inspired me to go tomorrow.

You must be doing something right to be sure. Remember to stretch after and don’t overdo things. I got all sorts of niggles from running every day during lockdown, but rest and a physio visit fixed it 🙂
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Old 01-29-2023, 03:50 AM
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Strange but positive scenario last night. Had a work night out with a free bar, everyone was drinking but I decided to drive.

Couple of things I noticed:
* I had more fun than if I had been drinking
* No one really cared that I wasn't drinking
* It's acceptable to leave early when things are starting to get messy
* Having the freedom to jump in my car, leave when I want and stop on the way home to do a bit of late night food shopping is awesome 😆

Usually after these boozy work nights out I would get home already drunk then open a bottle wine and drink on my own until I passed out (always needed those drinks alone no matter how much I'd already had).. there was no enjoyment in going out as it always ended the same.

Only been a few weeks but for the first time I'm starting to appreciate that there's a life out there to be enjoyed, I just couldn't see it through my alcoholic eyes.
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Old 01-29-2023, 04:29 AM
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Nice to read, Wes 🙂 Really well done.
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Old 01-29-2023, 04:36 AM
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Old 01-29-2023, 02:48 PM
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You're right, Wes. I remember thinking it would be impossible to live without it. It was once part of everything I did. I look back & can't believe I ever thought that way. I'm happy you're feeling so encouraged. Things will continue to get even better.
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Old 01-29-2023, 03:58 PM
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Hi Hevyn, the old me at a free bar event would look at the likes of Wes (or the new me) and think how dull life must be not to drink. I’ve done more in the last 3 to 4 years (sober) than I honestly did in the previous 20. It was a huge waste of life, but I feel blessed to have escaped from all that.
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Old 01-31-2023, 01:55 PM
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Well done Wes, your starting to see how much better life can be. I was always guilty of thinking those not drinking were bores and how could they possibly enjoy life without alcohol!?
Now I see it so clearly, it was a turning point for me when I suddenly found that I wouldn't want to be drunk with them because I love being sober and all the great things it brings.
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