When do I stop counting days?
I know a lot of folks who believe that acknowledging their day count is a vital part of their process.
It does make sense that paying heed daily to how many days of sobriety we have is a ritual of sorts that can really help us remain committed to our best lives.
It does make sense that paying heed daily to how many days of sobriety we have is a ritual of sorts that can really help us remain committed to our best lives.
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I could not stop counting them. I wanted to forget I was quitting. I wanted the obsession for alcohol to end whether it was about drinking or quitting. This lasted a long long time because I was trying to not feel that feeling (does it ring a bell?). Until I gave up and accepted I just knew how many days. Then, somewhere after day 200 I lost the count. I can check it on my app too, but it is done.
I still remember every day (it is now over 18 months) that I am sober. I check in here often (less since we need to login, don't know why) and I use this memory as a blessing, something to be grateful for everyday.
I still remember every day (it is now over 18 months) that I am sober. I check in here often (less since we need to login, don't know why) and I use this memory as a blessing, something to be grateful for everyday.
I quit counting a long time ago.
Everyday I start fresh and count to 1 at the end of the day.
The next day, I reset to zero and start over again. That's my "one day at a time" focus.
(I know that I've used that strategy well over 4,000 days in a row now).
Everyday I start fresh and count to 1 at the end of the day.
The next day, I reset to zero and start over again. That's my "one day at a time" focus.
(I know that I've used that strategy well over 4,000 days in a row now).
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Join Date: Jan 2016
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I sill count
I have a calendar and still mark each day. I was on day 940 yesterday. I found it helps me. For the longest time I would go 5 or 6 days and relapse. 30 days was a huge milestone. Good luck in your recovery.
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