Notices

A little milestone

Thread Tools
 
Old 08-14-2020, 09:53 PM
  # 1 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Feb 2017
Posts: 178
A little milestone

As of 8/12 it’s been 4 months without a drink and 6 months since I drank regularly. Don’t plan on picking one up ever again. I still feel like crap though. Waiting for that awesome healthy feeling to overtake me.
myluckyday is offline  
Old 08-14-2020, 10:07 PM
  # 2 (permalink)  
bona fido dog-lover
 
least's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: SF Bay area, CA
Posts: 99,783
Congrats on your sober time! To speed up the arrival of that awesome healthy feeling, practice gratitude every day. That's what I was advised to do when, at 3 months, I wasn't 'feeling it' and my sobriety felt threatened. Gratitude strengthened my sobriety and made me happier too. Here's a good article about gratitude.

https://www.nytimes.com/2015/11/22/o...pier.html?_r=0
least is online now  
Old 08-14-2020, 11:38 PM
  # 3 (permalink)  
Administrator
 
Dee74's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Australia
Posts: 211,444
Congrats on your sober time

I hope you'll feel better soon - for me I also had to look at other things as well tho - my diet was pretty cruddy for example, and I got next to no exercise. Fixing up both things really helped

D
Dee74 is offline  
Old 08-14-2020, 11:41 PM
  # 4 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2020
Posts: 4,790
Are you doing anything to feel better? Exercise, socializing, fun hobbies,?
freedomfries is online now  
Old 08-15-2020, 12:19 AM
  # 5 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2010
Posts: 739
Excellent work. Well done on your 4 months. Have you experienced any mental or physical changes?
AlbaSober is offline  
Old 08-15-2020, 12:32 AM
  # 6 (permalink)  
Blue Belt
 
D122y's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2015
Location: Soberville, USA
Posts: 4,174
I am heavily kindled and felt very bad, off and on, for well over 6 months. Off and on was they key.

My old alky buddy would tell me to just have a drink to take the edge off, but I knew that would end up bad, as usual.

i still get cravings, but thanks to this place, I get real feedback, examples, and reasons to remain proudly clean forever.

Drinking was a learned behavior. It permanently altered my brain. I will crave for life. If I relapse it will contribute to an early demise filled with sickness both physically and mentally. I am not going out like that.

Thanks.
D122y is offline  
Old 08-15-2020, 05:56 AM
  # 7 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: Warwick RI
Posts: 1,276
Wow...feeling down like you do and remaining sober for 4 months is a real accomplishment..
Getting that "healthy" feeling is unfortunately something else you have to work for.

I have some weights and a ball that have been staring at me for months...and this week I picked up the weights and started some small workouts....and it feels amazing that I am making the effort to keep my body in shape....

When you exercise (even a little bit) to keep your body in shape it really changes your mental wellness for the better.
You want to feel healthier...and happy...so make a goal for this DAY to do some type of exercise for your body...walking, riding a bike, jumping jacks? LOL....lifting weights....something and your mental state will benefit from it.....


Misssy2 is offline  
Old 08-15-2020, 07:20 PM
  # 8 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Feb 2017
Posts: 178
I have had some real health issues. I have had serious pain in my liver, gastrointestinal issues, joint pain, fatigue, nausea and now chest pain. I’ve had blood tests, ultrasound and recently a cat scan. They say I have small lesions on my liver. Going to a gastroenterologist soon to try to get to the bottom of it. I’ve been eating very healthy, have gone gluten free and exercising but nothing helps. I’m just hoping I stopped drinking in time. Trying everything I can to feel better, taking supplements and meditating too. I’m hoping one day I wake up and all this is over.
myluckyday is offline  
Old 08-16-2020, 06:12 PM
  # 9 (permalink)  
OX
 
BigShoe's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2012
Location: Upper Left USA
Posts: 630
Congratulations lucky day. 4 months is great. Sounds like you are giving your body the opportunity to meet you on the good side. Well done
BigShoe is offline  
Old 08-16-2020, 06:23 PM
  # 10 (permalink)  
Administrator
 
Anna's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: Dancing in the Light
Posts: 61,512
4 months of sobriety is great, and I hope you start to feel better.
Anna is online now  
Old 08-16-2020, 09:44 PM
  # 11 (permalink)  
Member
 
NicLin's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2019
Posts: 519
Keep at it, you got this! Life happens and continues to happen, and we are now in a position where we feel things REALLY.

Things get better, at least we are not soaking in alcohol any longer.

Nic.
NicLin is offline  

Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off





All times are GMT -7. The time now is 10:45 PM.