Originally Posted by joandmelandhan

I did indeed BrandNewDay and am thrilled you're doing so well!!!!!

Lorij13099 the wonderful news is you have found a caring community where there is no longer any need to hide your guilt. There are many other mothers here who carry the same burden but have found a way of breaking the guilt-drink cycle and work a programme of sobriety which suits their lives. You only have to mention the word "mom" and we will flock and offer our support day or night. Because we understand.

Of course we can't put motherhood on hold and go off to a recover commune for 3 months. Life isn't like that and it inherently makes it extra difficult to begin with.

Our children need their mums. They don't deserve the "sorries" or empty promises. What they need is for us to get well and, in time, become the mum they need. The guilt can indeed be overwhelming but guilt is such a strong trigger emotion it is crucial you put it to one side in the short term. Getting sober and in time maintaining long term sobriety is the absolute number 1 best thing you can do for your children. I truly believe that.

We are here to hold your hand through the difficult times ahead. You aren't alone any more. I look forward to sharing your journey with you xxx

Originally Posted by Lorij13099

This just hit me right in the heart. I'm going to write it in my journal. Thank you Thank you Thank You!!!!

Originally Posted by BrandNewDay11

Jo your words of wisdom have changed people's lives for the better!