Maybe I do need help
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Originally Posted by Musical 
Thankyou so much for your replies. I honestly didn't expect positive replies. It's motivating it's made me smile and made me feel happy I came here.
I cannot deny already I have slipped up, but I feel I can make a step forward and try harder.
I had a few people around for dinner and kept saying no no no, but then I have in said one wont hurt and it became 3.
My problem is those people that came round do not know my issue. And I do not want to share it with them.
Am I wrong?
I cannot deny already I have slipped up, but I feel I can make a step forward and try harder.
I had a few people around for dinner and kept saying no no no, but then I have in said one wont hurt and it became 3.
My problem is those people that came round do not know my issue. And I do not want to share it with them.
Am I wrong?
The thing most of us don't realise at first is that we can say no thanks - and we can leave it at that.
There's absolutely no need to go blurting out your whole history of problem drinking.
There's not even a need to offer an excuse like I'm watching my weight, I'm on meds or I have to drive early in the morning or whatever
I understand that makes things a little more comfortable when saying no, but I don't even bother with that.
Just no thanks is all anyone needs to know
I made the mistake of thinking everyone obsessed about drinking like I did. The truth is normal drinkers really don't care if you drink or not.
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