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Old 05-08-2018, 10:33 PM
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Thank you for the music, weekenders!

I really enjoyed it!
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Old 05-08-2018, 10:48 PM
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Morning all.
In work today. Have to go get a second coffee though .
Listening to that music was class this morning

nova you should sing your heart out and do what you enjoy imo
MB your new trainer sounds like serious stuff.

Hey Gilmer, Lunar Mesa and D
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Old 05-08-2018, 11:01 PM
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Morning, Vinny!

Have a great day at work.
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Old 05-09-2018, 01:06 AM
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I've finally decided to do some cleaning in my apartment, because it's a legit mess.

And guess what I am doing - beating myself up!

"I should be writing now. I should be taking care of long-term things".

Ahhhhh.

"My dear child, don't break your heart".

But this mantra hasn't sunk it yet.
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Old 05-09-2018, 01:23 AM
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At least your recognising it MB and that is half the battle. Once you have cleaned your appartment you will feel so much better, your eyes won't be full of clutter and your heart not full of anger at yourself for letting things go and your writing/motivation might just improve! Put down the beating stick, show yourself some love and give yourself a chance xx
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Old 05-09-2018, 03:36 AM
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I've cleaned the balcony and I am exhausted!

But now it looks nice and I can work there!

I love writing on the balcony.

Off the do some swimming.
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Old 05-09-2018, 03:47 AM
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Originally Posted by nova84 View Post
... So 20+ years later I have decided that whether I can in fact sing (or not) I am going to do something I enjoy....
Good for you! I was told once, there is no such thing as "I can't sing", If you can talk, you can sing.

I'm interesting in starting some sort of singing exercises m'self. I would love hear how you progress in the new chior, keep us posted!
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Old 05-09-2018, 03:48 AM
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Oh and.... Happy Hump day!
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Old 05-09-2018, 03:56 AM
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Hi, Vman and the rest of you all!
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Old 05-09-2018, 07:40 AM
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MB, I had to write little affirmative message sticky notes and put them up where I would see them a hundred times a day.

The only problem is if I have someone over, I feel like I need to take them down. Some of them are pretty cheesy. BUT they work.
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Old 05-09-2018, 07:50 AM
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Originally Posted by MidnightBlue View Post
I've finally decided to do some cleaning in my apartment, because it's a legit mess.

And guess what I am doing - beating myself up!

"I should be writing now. I should be taking care of long-term things".

Ahhhhh.

"My dear child, don't break your heart".

But this mantra hasn't sunk it yet.
Honey....you can clean and dictate notes into your phone or a recorder....I always get great writing ideas while I'm cleaning.....

And nova....Rock Choir.....wow.....that is awesome!!!
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Old 05-09-2018, 08:08 AM
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Hi, weekenders.

Thank your for ideas and support)

I am back from swimming. I did 32 laps) Back to a clean balcony.

I feel so lazy))))

I need to write those sticky notes to evict toxic thoughts out of my head.
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Old 05-09-2018, 08:27 AM
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The sticky notes really work.

On the bathroom mirror, on the refrigerator, above the computer, next to the light by the bed, above the spot where I make coffee. It just takes having alternate words to put in my head other than the negative ones. Poetry is good to memorize, too. When I get into some morose mood, reciting a long poem helps to put the right words in my head, words that are orderly and not random firings from the ego.
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Old 05-09-2018, 08:30 AM
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I agree....I did it too....and same, whenever anyone came over I moved some of them at least.

My favourite is/was from a friend in a class thread here.....I had this on the bathroom mirror for a long time.

You Are Strong
You Are Loved
You Can Do This
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Old 05-09-2018, 09:26 AM
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Bim, Venus - I love this!
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Old 05-09-2018, 09:32 AM
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No post it notes but my eldest daughter did get me a "World's Okayest Dad" mug.
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Old 05-09-2018, 10:45 AM
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That's one cool mug, Sao)
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Old 05-09-2018, 11:03 AM
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I kept listening to the the old fogey music (pre 21st century ) most of the day. And I have to say I love that Chet Atkins and Jerry Reed stuff. Those guys seemed really classy and cool as breezes.

When I think about my wasted youth growing up to the Wolfe Tones and the Dubliners...
Banjo Barney was still a hero

Goodnight weekenders.

Rendez-vous on a new thread tomorrow.
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Old 05-09-2018, 11:11 AM
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Good night, Vinny)
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