In over my head
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In over my head
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Hi everyone! This is a most uncomfortable subject and I am really hoping to find some good advice here. I'm here because my ex is now in rehab. After I tried to end things, this problem spiraled quick. He ended up in the hospital with a seizure, detoxed (what a sight to see that was!) And then started up right away worse than ever as soon as he got home.. ended up with a bac over .40 in the er the day before he entered. So much more to the story, but I'm not sure what I should and shouldn't say at this delicate time. Am i allowed to be angry? Should I speak my mind? Should I step away altogether? Because now I'm more confused then ever! I either love him still or enjoy the tumult. I'm just trying to sort it out... any insight would be welcome!
Hi everyone! This is a most uncomfortable subject and I am really hoping to find some good advice here. I'm here because my ex is now in rehab. After I tried to end things, this problem spiraled quick. He ended up in the hospital with a seizure, detoxed (what a sight to see that was!) And then started up right away worse than ever as soon as he got home.. ended up with a bac over .40 in the er the day before he entered. So much more to the story, but I'm not sure what I should and shouldn't say at this delicate time. Am i allowed to be angry? Should I speak my mind? Should I step away altogether? Because now I'm more confused then ever! I either love him still or enjoy the tumult. I'm just trying to sort it out... any insight would be welcome!
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He must be an ex for a reason Squeeze Boxx?
If you're blaming yourself for his sudden descent I wouldn't.
Alcoholics in active alcoholism drink.
Everytime I had a relationship end, I drank more because I no longer had someone 'to be good for' and ensure I restrained my drinking.
D
If you're blaming yourself for his sudden descent I wouldn't.
Alcoholics in active alcoholism drink.
Everytime I had a relationship end, I drank more because I no longer had someone 'to be good for' and ensure I restrained my drinking.
D
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