canguy

Oh....mate.
I'd just relax with it. If you like the guy, if you think he's ok....you trust him emotionally. Just go with it. He's not trying to hide anything. That is a real good start. Just cruise along together and see how it goes. All the best.

AAPJ

Many great comments here. Blufield, may I suggest that you read some of the posts in the Friends and Family section? Perhaps it will give you a bit of appreciation for your situation.