How hard should you push yourself
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How hard should you push yourself
Phase two of my plan was to start some kind of periodic exercise regime after three weeks of not drinking. I'm beyond that now by a few days but I just can't get motivated. I'm getting good rest which has been awesome the past week . I'm real comfortable and feel safe coming home and drinking tea in the evenings while watching tv. Do you think it's important to keep making positive changes as fast as you can or early on should you do what feels comfortable? I really need some advice. In it forever this time.thanks to you all
I'm only at 57 days, so take this with a grain of salt, but my original plan was to eat whatever I wanted for the first month and get serious about diet and exercise after the 30 day mark. That day came and went, and I decided that if I really wanted sobriety more than anything, I would have to postpone my timeline. Now, as I approach 60 days, I'm feeling MUCH more ready than I was a month ago.
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Ten and a half months ago I stopped drinking and started exercising. I started by walking 15 minutes. I built upon that and in May I completed a trek to mt.Everest base camp. Just start and you'll be amazed where it can lead.
I wouldn't push myself too hard in the beginning. Take is easy and be good to yourself. If you want to exercise, start with walking. It's easy and free and does a world of good. Walking my dogs is the high point of my days.
I found it really important to start listening to my body. During my drinking years, I stopped listening to my body for the most part. It took awhile for me to learn to turn in to simple things my body was telling me. I do think you should relax and do what feels right, and within reason, don't push yourself.
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I pretty much live at the guy now, but if I was just beginning, I'd start off slow and build up from there. There's nothing worse than finally make it to the gym, then end up pulling a muscle and having to take a week off. I'm speaking from experience. The important thing is that you show up. What you do once there is really not a big deal. John
Think of something that has always interested you,like a hobby.
Do some research on the internet. Like a garden,maybe refinishing some furniture, or doing some kind of craft or painting.
It will keep your mind occupied. You'll have something to look forward to.
Might find something that you love doing.
I tried salt water fish tanks, gardens, remodeling a bath room.
Just kept busy and ...well......got a lot of things done in the process.
Today will be 3 years since I started my journey of sobriety.
I kept busy most of the time.
Do some research on the internet. Like a garden,maybe refinishing some furniture, or doing some kind of craft or painting.
It will keep your mind occupied. You'll have something to look forward to.
Might find something that you love doing.
I tried salt water fish tanks, gardens, remodeling a bath room.
Just kept busy and ...well......got a lot of things done in the process.
Today will be 3 years since I started my journey of sobriety.
I kept busy most of the time.
I just walk a lot, it's easy to walk! I can walk forever. And when you walk, they throw the thinking in for free. Get some of my best thinking done that way. Helps my sobriety too, I think.
I've lost 14 pounds in the 48 days I've been sober just by walking and staying under a set number of calories a day. Not quite effortless but not that difficult either.
I've lost 14 pounds in the 48 days I've been sober just by walking and staying under a set number of calories a day. Not quite effortless but not that difficult either.
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I took my time to start exercise- definitely felt like I was "Supposed to" much sooner. I am just past five months and it was only in May that I started running. I decided to do a 1mi race series each of July/Aug/Sep - nothing at all compared to my days of serious running but from how sick I was in Feb when I stopped drinking, damn big. So now I've overlapped 3mi and 5K races for Aug/Sep/Oct and plan to keep going.
Don't stress out over the time frame. Eating and exercise as part of our self-care have to come as they can in some ways (ie, now I eat less ice cream and now I am running- cut myself slack for awhile!!). Being healthy and sober is the real deal - the rest is gravy!
Don't stress out over the time frame. Eating and exercise as part of our self-care have to come as they can in some ways (ie, now I eat less ice cream and now I am running- cut myself slack for awhile!!). Being healthy and sober is the real deal - the rest is gravy!
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