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Old 01-14-2016, 09:14 AM
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Congratulations on 18 months of sobriety, Melinda.

Brilliant and considered post, as always. Thank you.
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Old 01-14-2016, 10:39 AM
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Congratulations Melinda! Great post.

My family knew I quit drinking and so did a couple of normie friends but I didn't really share the non drinking thing with anyone until lately. Before the holidays people were talking about drinking, going out, etc. etc. I merely said "I don't drink" and left it at that. When one person seemed surprised I just added "been there, done that." Nothing further was said.

What I've noticed along the way is that people who have the biggest problem with someone who doesn't drink are the people who already have a troubled relationship with alcohol. People who don't have trouble with alcohol really don't care if we drink or not.
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Old 01-14-2016, 11:16 AM
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Melinda, great post, thanks. Congratulations! I love your posts.
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Old 01-14-2016, 11:30 AM
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Fabulous going on 18 months of sobriety Melinda!!
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Very inspirational. Your posts gave me a lot of support when I gave up drinking - 16 months ago now!
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Old 01-14-2016, 02:14 PM
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I like reading your blathers! Congrats on 18 months sobriety!
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Really great post Melinda. Thank you
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Thankyou for an insightful, encouraging post Melinda. You sound different this time - determined and upbeat. Wonderful job on reaching 18 mos.
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Old 01-14-2016, 03:43 PM
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Awesome, heartfelt post! Well done - happy for you and congratulations!
Keep up the good work

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Old 01-14-2016, 07:40 PM
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congratulations, Melinda!

and much like you, i had no intention of ever opening my mouth about it at work, and then after a couple of years a couple of things just happened a couple of times and i told a couple of people.
it's amazing relief how what seemed such an etched-in-stone "no" ended up not mattering when i'd reached some solidity and the shame had gone.

looking forward to reading more posts as you move along
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Old 01-14-2016, 08:12 PM
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Yay!! Thanks for posting, you're one of my favourites here xo
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Old 01-14-2016, 08:28 PM
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Great post Melissa. I'm sitting/dancing on just over 3 weeks and you give inspiration. Thank you.
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Old 01-14-2016, 08:46 PM
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Congratulations, and thanks for sharing you story in this post and many others.
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Old 01-15-2016, 12:32 AM
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Congratulations! And thanks for sharing your story.
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Old 01-15-2016, 02:31 AM
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What Venicia and Melina said...
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Old 01-19-2017, 03:28 AM
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Melinda Flowers, you are my hero, you are awesome x
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Old 01-19-2017, 04:01 AM
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Great post and congratulations on 18 months Melinda!
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Old 01-19-2017, 04:10 AM
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Great post!!! Congratulations on 18 months. I love following your story, as others have said.

I have had a few of the experiences you describe (though at work, it's not a big deal if people know that I am an alcoholic, "For real")....I understand what you mean about it feeling....normal....as we are more and more comfortable in our lives.

Happy New Year to you!
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Old 01-19-2017, 04:31 AM
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Congratulations. Enjoyed your post very much.
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Old 01-19-2017, 04:33 AM
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I loved reading your post and the biggest congratulations on 18 months, it is so wonderful. : )
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