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Welcome to you mech. I'm sorry for what you're going through.
Being here with us will help you to not feel alone. We've all been through similar painful times - due to our drinking. I lost my whole life, but I put it back together again. Things aren't the same, but they are good! You can do it. Be proud of yourself for making this decision.
Being here with us will help you to not feel alone. We've all been through similar painful times - due to our drinking. I lost my whole life, but I put it back together again. Things aren't the same, but they are good! You can do it. Be proud of yourself for making this decision.
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Stopping drinking is the first step to getting sober. Of course there is more to it than that.......but it's a good start!
I took a hostage, I mean got married also........
Willingness and acceptance are the keys. If you're ready, they will open the door.
keep coming back
I took a hostage, I mean got married also........
Willingness and acceptance are the keys. If you're ready, they will open the door.
keep coming back
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Sorry your going through this. Letting go and working on yourself is probably the right track. Things didn't turn around for me until I made the same painful decision.
Your there and back journey is a good reminder for me and probably others. Although it doesn't help you right now. Thanks for sharing.
I hope you can pull through this and find contentment.
Your there and back journey is a good reminder for me and probably others. Although it doesn't help you right now. Thanks for sharing.
I hope you can pull through this and find contentment.
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Hi mech, Your situation sounds tough, but by your own admission, it sounds like you may have been down this road before. First things first, you need to get sober, sounds like you are in that process. Once the head is clear and the mind is sharp, go to step 2 (whatever that may be). Wishing you the best mech. Keep us posted.
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I don't know what she is doing. She never been around an alcholic before and doesn't understand why I was. I tried to have her look into it but she says that it dumb. If I loved her I would not have been like I was.
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Hi mech, Your situation sounds tough, but by your own admission, it sounds like you may have been down this road before. First things first, you need to get sober, sounds like you are in that process. Once the head is clear and the mind is sharp, go to step 2 (whatever that may be). Wishing you the best mech. Keep us posted.
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