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Old 02-03-2015, 03:40 PM
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One Month, and no dock tape

Midnight tonight and I hit one month. I might even set my alarm clock to wake up a scream at the top of my lungs, yay!

Humour aside, I feel like my sobriety is not holding together with dock tape this time. What's different? I don't take stressful situations the same way anymore.

I realize also that a lot of the stress was self caused, by wanting to perform and excel at work and home, trying to control what I couldn't, constantly waiting for something to be happy, setting unreasonable self expectations etc.

I decided that waking up alive, having food and a roof over my head are the only important things, because when I die, I'm not bringing anything with me anyway. So might as well be happy, live for the now, cruise along my life sober, and take time to smell the flowers along the way.

Have a great day everyone, and never forget, life is beautiful when looked at trough sober eyes.

Rock on!
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Wonderful news Thepatman - we know how hard you worked for this! So glad for you.
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Great stuff Pat!!

Very happy for you my friend!! Keep it going!!
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Congratulations you are doing fantastic keep up the exellent work Patman
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Awesome, Pat! I think that's a great insight that pushing ourselves unnecessarily does not serve sobriety well in the beginning. Keep on rockin'
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Congratulations p-man

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Fantastic post, Thepatman!

It sounds like you're living in gratitude and that's the best!
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Very cool post, ThePatman. I am so very happy for you.

Beautiful, simply beautiful.
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Congrats on one month sober!
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Great job Patman. Kudos to you!
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That's great P-Man!!! You have all the tools that you need and you are making it happen. Woo hoo!!!
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This made me incredibly happy. Way to go, man!
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Great news, well done, and excellent job on the gratitude and self- care, Patman
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Hey TPM ,

I realize also that a lot of the stress was self caused, by wanting to perform and excel at work and home, trying to control what I couldn't, constantly waiting for something to be happy, setting unreasonable self expectations etc.

I decided that waking up alive, having food and a roof over my head are the only important things, because when I die, I'm not bringing anything with me anyway. So might as well be happy, live for the now, cruise along my life sober, and take time to smell the flowers along the way.
As i sit here having just quit my second job in 12 months i can't help but agree with you .. the money was good but blimey it has been a rough and intense ride .

Sometimes the old lessons are the new lessons, dressed in a different way .

keep on

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30 days is no joke.

Congrats! You should be very proud. One day at a time and keep on keeping on .
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