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Old 02-02-2015, 02:53 AM
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Weird milestone

Hello everyone.

here I am in year 4 of sobriety, currently dealing with a bunch of life stuff that has suddenly been thrown mine & my wife´s way.

I´m posting because I realised that despite the trouble, I have in no way been at risk of picking up a drink. Not for a moment. It seems abundantly clear to me that what happens in my life has nothing whatsoever to do with alcohol. they are pages in different books.

Maybe being sober is finally becoming an unconscious habit. Before I get all complacent, I should add that I have a daily ´sobriety practice´and it has taken me most of my adult life to achieve this. fell off the wagon constantly for many years until it ´clicked´.

I will do anything to safeguard my sobriety because without it I will die from alcohol abuse leaving my little boy without his dad. Not gonna happen.

i hope this is helpful to someone.


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Old 02-02-2015, 03:03 AM
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Awesome, sobermax! I feel like that now too, two years into being sober. Now when problems crop up in life acknowledge the problem and deal with it instead of retreating into the bottle.
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Old 02-02-2015, 03:19 AM
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Exellent post well done on your 4+ years sobriety ..inspiring

Thank you Sobermax
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Thanks for your post sobermax. You are exactly where I intend to be 4 years from now and for the same reasons. Well done.
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Thank you Max and well done
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Thank you, Max. I was there for many years. Trying to get back there now. You did help me realize why I want this back so much.
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Sounds like a great place to be!
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Old 02-02-2015, 04:20 AM
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Originally Posted by sobermax View Post

Maybe being sober is finally becoming an unconscious habit. Before I get all complacent, I should add that I have a daily ´sobriety practice´and it has taken me most of my adult life to achieve this. fell off the wagon constantly for many years until it ´clicked´.

I will do anything to safeguard my sobriety because without it I will die from alcohol abuse leaving my little boy without his dad. Not gonna happen.
your thoughts remind me of my thoughts regarding this issue
let's keep doing what we have been doing -- it works.

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Old 02-02-2015, 05:12 AM
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Great to hear form you Max - I hope whatever the rough seas are, they quieten soon

Congrats on 4 years

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That's awesome sobermax. I hope that life gets smoother but I am so happy you've found the relief that comes with totally taking alcohol off the table.
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Old 02-02-2015, 05:19 AM
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Great post! This is a good inspiration for me and everyone else.
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Old 02-02-2015, 06:38 AM
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Awesome max.

What's your daily practice?
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Old 02-02-2015, 06:43 AM
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Congratulations on four years and thanks for posting.
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Old 02-02-2015, 06:45 AM
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Originally Posted by Eshgham View Post
Awesome max.

What's your daily practice?
Great post, sobermax; congratulations on 4 years!!!!!

I'd like to know, too; what is your daily practice?
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4th Year is fantastic Max!!
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