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Old 01-30-2014, 06:23 AM
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starting over

starting over....again....
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Old 01-30-2014, 06:54 AM
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Good plan. Care to elaborate? What brings you to Sober Recovery?
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Welcome to the family. You'll find lots of support here.
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Old 01-30-2014, 08:28 AM
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In the early days of sobriety, I tried to keep a sense of humor about things, because it really really is an absurd and surreal time.

The line from the Monty Python show used to pop into my mind all the time "and now for something completely different..." like me doing something other than drink and drug.

Like, I feel like crap so I am going to put on some music and sing real loud, or go to a meeting of other pathetic losers (that was how it felt back then) or sit in a corner and do that thing where you make your lips go up and down like a motor boat with your finger...or do a LOT of word search puzzles.

go to the zoo, make cookies and hand them out to my friends, watch funny cat videos on youtube...life was absurd anyway....

glad you are on board. it gets better.
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Old 01-30-2014, 08:31 AM
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No?
Why?

Because it's the right thing to do. Welcome back.
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Glad you are back. I found that once I truly admitted that I could not drink alcohol and believed that my life was much better, easier, peaceful without it; I don't have to think about the "first" days again.
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Old 01-30-2014, 10:02 AM
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I'm afraid I can't pull it off. Longest I went was 21 days.
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Old 01-30-2014, 10:05 AM
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You can do it. Good luck..Stay strong and keep on SR.
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Old 01-30-2014, 10:29 AM
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Good decision, you can do it xxxx
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I agree, you can do it. We all did it
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Old 01-30-2014, 10:44 AM
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I'm afraid I can't pull it off. Longest I went was 21 days.
Keep trying. No one is hopeless. It's harder for some than it is for others. Fear can be humbling, and humility is a great start.
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Old 01-30-2014, 03:08 PM
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Welcome to SR jschultz

Originally Posted by jlschultz View Post
I'm afraid I can't pull it off. Longest I went was 21 days.
Sometimes we just need to tweak our plan a little.

Did you have any support in those 21 days? what changes did you make in your life?

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Old 01-30-2014, 05:58 PM
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Welcome back, jlschultz. You got this!!
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Old 01-31-2014, 01:19 AM
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Welcome back! 21 days is a serious accomplishment, so give yourself credit. Now, what went wrong? What might you try differently?

It can be done! It's good to have you at SR.
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Old 01-31-2014, 04:11 AM
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Originally Posted by jlschultz View Post
I'm afraid I can't pull it off. Longest I went was 21 days.
Longest I went was 3 days.
Until I went 6 days.
Until I went 14 days
Until I went 42 days
Until I went...

Welcome back to the fight of your life.
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