Crap Day
You have made me feel better actually too-scrap couple of days in the struggle of staying sober. To realise this is just life-it's up and down. But at least we're living and feel alive, not just foggy and numb:-). Hope you have a good day tomorrow.
As usual you express it really well. I have had a lot of days wondering exactly that... what if I'm just not cut out for living???
I don't have any advice right now because I'm still figuring out which way is up. But I wanted to let you know that I feel the same way often. I usually just try to hope that the fact that I care about whether I'm living right is a good thing and that ultimately the discomfort will help me grow.
I don't have any advice right now because I'm still figuring out which way is up. But I wanted to let you know that I feel the same way often. I usually just try to hope that the fact that I care about whether I'm living right is a good thing and that ultimately the discomfort will help me grow.
Hi Nuudawn,
I'm sorry you're feeling this way, but your post and the excellent responses have helped me today, a not so good day for me.
I was feeling resentful and hard done by that a girl-friend constantly bemoans her awful relationship with her alcoholic partner, yet she never supports me when I have been in the throes of a depressive episode, saying "I just can't deal with that". She wants me to drink, she's not supportive of my sobriety.
I think others have put it well that we've an awful lot of growing up to do, I know I for sure do.
I love your wit and your posts and derive a great deal of help from your account of how you are changing in sobriety, the good and the bad of it.
You said it "Crap day", but tomorrow is another day! Take it easy!!
I'm sorry you're feeling this way, but your post and the excellent responses have helped me today, a not so good day for me.
I was feeling resentful and hard done by that a girl-friend constantly bemoans her awful relationship with her alcoholic partner, yet she never supports me when I have been in the throes of a depressive episode, saying "I just can't deal with that". She wants me to drink, she's not supportive of my sobriety.
I think others have put it well that we've an awful lot of growing up to do, I know I for sure do.
I love your wit and your posts and derive a great deal of help from your account of how you are changing in sobriety, the good and the bad of it.
You said it "Crap day", but tomorrow is another day! Take it easy!!
Hey Nuu,
Your post made me think of this OK Go song. A Rube Goldberg machine just for you! Sorry about the add at the beginning but it's worth the wait.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qybUFnY7Y8w
Cheers,
Cas
Your post made me think of this OK Go song. A Rube Goldberg machine just for you! Sorry about the add at the beginning but it's worth the wait.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qybUFnY7Y8w
Cheers,
Cas
In some sort of lousy emotional headspace. I don't want to drink, if I did I would likely kill myself...so I guess that's good news. The not wanting to drink. I'm not too sure how to do "lousy days". I guess today I am afraid that sobriety won't turn me into a normal, functioning adult. I feel like I don't know how to "do" life. I feel like a defiant teenager...self centered...who doesn't want to clean her room or pick up after herself. I feel like I don't know how to "function" like a regular person. I feel like I can't live up to my own friggin standards and that frightens me. I don't want to dislike myself the rest of my life. I'm so bloody tired of it. Sorry..I'm just venting. I don't seem to know what else to do with myself.
You are always so kind and helpful to everyone here. If you don't love yourself for who you are at this moment, think of the days you have helped me and the others stay sober. That is big. When I go out and drink or use, I'm risking my life, no kidding, every time. Many of us are dealing with the same issues and urges but you help people fight it. I think you deserve to be kind to yourself. You are not a child. You are learning; growing and making progress. Change isn't easy and it takes time but you're doing it. Just don't give up. We all have bad days but if you stick around they will be less awful and the good days will always be right around the corner. I say this to you with as much hope for myself... I have very low self-esteem too. It helps to know that I'm not alone, but of course neither of us deserves to suffer. I just know it has to keep getting better.
Many hugs
Many hugs
Hi dawn,
I don't have any words of wisdom for having a crappy day. If I can muster up a "I'm grateful I didn't drink" at the end of the day it was a better day than it could have been. I hope you wake up feeling better today.
I don't have any words of wisdom for having a crappy day. If I can muster up a "I'm grateful I didn't drink" at the end of the day it was a better day than it could have been. I hope you wake up feeling better today.
NuuDawn, I am going to quote you here because I thought it was the funniest post I ever read and I have thought it to myself often:
lol..good one. And I like your sentiment about the world not stopping because you stopped drinking. I feel like that sometimes. There are moments I wanna scream "For crying out loud people don't you know I just stopped drinking..gimme a damn minute here!!!".
lol..good one. And I like your sentiment about the world not stopping because you stopped drinking. I feel like that sometimes. There are moments I wanna scream "For crying out loud people don't you know I just stopped drinking..gimme a damn minute here!!!".
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Guys I'm really really really sorry to hear that. Get back on the bike quickly and there's no harm done. The longer you leave it, the harder it'll get and the worse you'll feel.
Come on back right now!!
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Hope your day went better Nuu. I know there are times I feel like a damned foreign exchange student to this planet. But I guess it's more like reverse culture shock: we were gone so long in drunkland that by the time we returned to soberville, soberville had changed. Breathe. You'll find your way again.
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Ippo? My mouth's agape...nooooooooooo. You okay? You around. Wanna hear from ya.
Scotsgirl?
I'm doing okay. Watched Fireworks over the ocean at family's city apartment. I'm sober... had some sort of sparkling fruit juice for the ocassion.
Thank you all. I had a rough 24 before I posted yesterday...maybe not whole 24. I binged and purged. Been like 20 years. Wow ..woke up yesterday..wanting to die. Had started the Champix 8 days prior. Cigarettes were making me sick. Yay. Thought quitting would be good part of remedy. Maybe Champix had something to do with it too? I'm keeping an eye of my moods.
Scotsgirl?
I'm doing okay. Watched Fireworks over the ocean at family's city apartment. I'm sober... had some sort of sparkling fruit juice for the ocassion.
Thank you all. I had a rough 24 before I posted yesterday...maybe not whole 24. I binged and purged. Been like 20 years. Wow ..woke up yesterday..wanting to die. Had started the Champix 8 days prior. Cigarettes were making me sick. Yay. Thought quitting would be good part of remedy. Maybe Champix had something to do with it too? I'm keeping an eye of my moods.
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