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Old 11-15-2012, 05:23 PM
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It is not so easy losing someone you love because of booze

I miss my ex every day but she has moved on. I just try to go on. I know this is not one of my funny posts but sometimes I don't feel funny. But I feel I can go on and be the best I can be. But that sounds like a milraty commercial so thay is kind of funny. i guess I have both sadness and fun in my heart.
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Old 11-15-2012, 05:29 PM
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The older I get Fitz the more I realise people come and go and life changes...it's not always pleasant but I think mostly we always wash up ok...still breathing, still able to make a difference.

and you never know what the future holds regarding people coming into your life....

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Old 11-15-2012, 05:30 PM
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I get you about the ex, she moved on also. Not easy. Loved so much, but I did not love myself
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Old 11-15-2012, 05:31 PM
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Originally Posted by MycoolFitz View Post
I miss my ex every day but she has moved on. I just try to go on. I know this is not one of my funny posts but sometimes I don't feel funny. But I feel I can go on and be the best I can be. But that sounds like a milraty commercial so thay is kind of funny. i guess I have both sadness and fun in my heart.
Your post are funny all the time. I'm sorry your are feeling bad tonight. Stay with us. I'll still try to be funny even though I'm having a crap day too. No promises though. :P

So far, the You Know You're An Alcoholic thread has made me smile. Maybe it will help you feel better.

I hope you feel better soon.
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Dee always Flies in and out with a post that brings me comfort. Thanks dee
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Old 11-15-2012, 05:39 PM
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I understand, I miss mine too.

Here is some kind words that I hope will help:

There comes a point in your life when you realize:

Who matters,
Who never did,
Who won't anymore...
And who always will.
So, don't worry about people from your past,
there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.
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Old 11-15-2012, 05:43 PM
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Sorry you are having a sad day. Someone else is going to recognize all of the amazing qualities you possess. Sending hugs.
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Old 11-15-2012, 06:05 PM
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Sorry to hear that, how long has it been?

I lost a wonderful relationship because of my drinking. I even stopped drinking around her, and some nights I would only have 1 or two beers. I woke up drunk one morning and I was furious with her because she was still not feeling well, and we were supposed to go to my moms Thanksgiving dinner (in Canada) So I yelled about it, broke up with her over the phone, got all my things and went into a binge. Drank for 3 days straight, din't contact her, woke up and realized I messed up, and begged for her back. I guess she got tired of my crap. Have not spoke to her in 15 days, and it's killing me on the inside.
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Old 11-15-2012, 09:09 PM
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Its not easy at all is it. I suppose there is a reason behind everything that happens to us though.
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Old 11-15-2012, 09:17 PM
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I think I lost my post. It has been almost 4 years. Funny thing she quit after I got sober, I was spending too much time on recovery. I was no fun anymore.
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Old 11-15-2012, 09:22 PM
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She thought you were no fun anymore? Fun in what way?
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Old 11-15-2012, 09:25 PM
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You seem fun and sounds like you help people out a lot on here. That happened to my mom with a long-term boyfriend of hers. Soon after he obtained sobriety, they ended up splitting up.. instead of what you would assume would fix it.
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Old 11-15-2012, 09:35 PM
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I was reading a lot of recovery stuff going to lots of meetings and she felt left out.
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