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Old 06-11-2012, 07:31 PM
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Guzzling and then puking ... and then guzzling again. Wow. I think a DVD of this movie should be attached to every bottle of wine/whiskey/spirits and every 6/12/24 pack. Funny how the pleasant side of alcohol is attached to every advert, but the dark side is always left out. We are all walking advertisements for what it can eventually do to you.
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Old 06-11-2012, 07:40 PM
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The Immortal Alcoholic

A woman's struggle as her husband drinks himself to death. She writes well.

We don't have to drink anymore. We can help others, too.

Big hugs to you,
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Old 06-12-2012, 07:23 AM
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Sugarbear, thanks for that link. I spent some time reading it last night - powerful.
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Old 06-12-2012, 03:52 PM
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I watched it again last night... felt depressed and thankful at the same time... oh, and then I went off on my usual tangent... ended up on Dr Google I now have about 327 terminal illnesses!
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Old 06-13-2012, 12:45 AM
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I first watched Rain in My Heart in January of this year.

I stopped drinking January 1 this year and in the very first week I still had the creeping thoughts that I could still moderate. After 20 years i was still looking for excuses...

Bad that documentary changed me. A couple of parts that really stuck out for me were the young woman who lost her son. She was talking about going out and even though she knew drinking would kill her, she was saying she would have x amount of wine and the rest a soft drink so she was saying it was not like drinking at all. The denial knows no bounds.

The other was mark drinking the red wine from a pint glass and throwing it up and imediately drinking again.

I will never forget those images.

I knew Vanda had passed away after googling the documentary. The whole documentary is tragic, but i am glad I watched it and very glad I never sunk to those depths.

May they all rest in peace.
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Old 06-13-2012, 03:37 AM
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I have seen people like this in the ICU where I work for the last 10 years and ignored it with the thoughts of 'it'll never happen to me' and 'I'm not that bad'. Truth is in the last 2 years I've been drinking as much or more as some! I'm half way through watching this doco and am so thankful I've found the path to sobriety before I got ill too. It's definately a myth that the only alcies that get sick are all day every day drinkers. We have plenty of highly functional nightly drinkers with major problems too. Thanx for posting about this doco, gonna go watch the rest now....so sad
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Old 06-13-2012, 04:42 AM
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I've not seen the documentary. Has anyone a link to it?
But after reading the comments from folk on here about it, I don't want alchohol to ever be a part of my life again.
Just the thought of vomiting with it makes me want to be sick now. And yes I agree there should be real stark warnings of bottle, beer etc of what the poison does to you.
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Old 06-13-2012, 04:47 AM
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You can find it on YouTube bonnie. It really is a powerful documentary but very disturbing in parts. I'd recommend anybody with a drinking problem to watch it. X
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Old 06-13-2012, 04:57 AM
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Thanks for the Post Payton

It is discussions like this that keep me motivated.:ghug3
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Old 06-13-2012, 05:00 AM
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Someone in my HG called drinking and puling "sink drinking". I have done it. Even when my body was rejecting alcohol I continued trying to drink it. Some are sicker than others and I am one of the sicker. Thank God my liver is normal.
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Old 06-13-2012, 05:34 AM
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I cried the first time I watched it.
Too close to home for me and I just feel so bad for everyone in the documentary.
Parts are sickly familiar and so very scary but all true...
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Old 06-13-2012, 06:04 AM
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Just watched the part with Vanda on. Saw a small part of the one with the boy on, but could'nt watch anymore!!!!
Certainly makes you think!
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Old 06-14-2012, 03:55 AM
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Just finished watching and I feel physically ill. Been thru a load of tissues too. So desparately sad. Alcoholism is evil. Anyone craving today, watch this film.
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Old 06-14-2012, 04:57 AM
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