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Old 05-15-2012, 06:23 PM
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Following in Instant's Footsteps.... ;)

‘Twas the night before her one year day,
She’s happy sober is the new way.
To live, to frolic, to laugh or to frown…
No longer does she play the clown.
It was suggested to spend some time
Speaking only in some rhyme...
The darkness and the gloom,
There is no place now to think of such doom.
Boring is no longer a curse,
Life today has yet to be worse.
Each day is spent in the now,
Every moment is such a wow!
She’s grateful to find great camaraderie
On a website they call Sober Recovery!

Thanks to the person who has the list of things to do in recovery!
(my memory is still not at 100% LOL )

I want to let everyone on SR know that in this Leap Year, I have one year of sobriety behind me, although tomorrow is the date of my last drink.?!

I was quite fuzzy in early recovery and even a few days into sobriety, I couldn’t quite figure out exactly when my last drink really was. It’s either the 16th or 17th, and as a good alkie does, I probably lied (it’s probably the 17th)!

Over 5000 posts later, being horrible in my first several posts to learning how to see the world differently; AA meetings galore, fun in sobriety at sober social gatherings, working the 12 steps three times (the third time I learned the sponsor’s process; still working on my last 9th step as some people aren’t ready to hear me out) and studying the big book of AA with my sponsor, reading outside AA literature, volunteering my time, finding employment-substitute teaching in my field of special education that I had stayed away from for 11 years as I was punishing myself harshly, I am about to have 2 interviews for full time employment at this point, credit counseling, tax office visits, working on “fixing” things I messed up in my drinking and drugging days, WOW!

I have accomplished a lot.…..I’ve worked through a lot of stuff from my past, some new things come up, and I’ve made it through a year, so I thank you all for being here (and there) for me!

If I can do it, anyone can!

I just reread my cheesy rhyme and now I am teary-eyed, I never thought I could be truly sober, especially without being on my own marijuana maintenance program! Thanks, again!! You all ROCK!

A special shout out to Soberred; YOU, my beautiful friend, have helped me so much more than you may ever know! Thank you for being my sober friend.

Thank you Sober Recovery!!

Love & hugs,
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Old 05-15-2012, 06:26 PM
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Congrats, shugga bear! =) You were one of the very first people who reached out to me on SR, and for that I am very grateful. Revel in your accomplishment! Great post!! You continue to inspire me! Big hugs,
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Old 05-15-2012, 06:40 PM
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congratulations D - and thanks for the many posts and the poem
may this year be the best year yet

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Old 05-15-2012, 06:40 PM
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Hey, awesome! I love your poem and you have done such a good job being sober for a year! I always get so much from your posts SB. Congratulations and go have yourself a cold and refreshing shirley temple with lots of extra cherries
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Old 05-15-2012, 06:44 PM
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I loved the poem :ghug3 You are sooooo funny
So proud of you and this HUGE accomplishment!!!
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Old 05-15-2012, 06:46 PM
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Awesome Sugarbear...congrats!
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Old 05-15-2012, 06:47 PM
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Sugarbear,

If you don't mind me saying you were a bit of a grizzly bear at the start. I have followed your posts with great interest as it has been a very successful story of recovery, full of insights. It shines through in all your posts.

You have done the work and deservedly reaping the rewards.

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Old 05-15-2012, 06:55 PM
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Hey SugarBear, Congratulations my friend.. nice poem, i never would have thought you were into Eminem yea, and that's one serious lookin kitty you got there too..
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Old 05-15-2012, 06:56 PM
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Congrats on one year sober!! Here's to many more.:ghug3
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Old 05-15-2012, 07:02 PM
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Congratulations! One year is awesome!
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Old 05-15-2012, 07:12 PM
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Excellent post! Excellent work this past year - both on yourself and the contributions that you've made to the collective here at SR. Way to go Sugarbear!
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Old 05-15-2012, 07:17 PM
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Congratulations Deb! :ghug3

I'm happy to have you here. Thanks for letting me share in the journey.
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Old 05-15-2012, 07:28 PM
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Not the average bear....Congrats on one beautiful year SB...Thanks for helping keep me sober.
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Old 05-15-2012, 07:28 PM
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Way to go, sugarbear! Love the poem and the post. You've done a lot of work this year - very inspirational!!!
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Old 05-15-2012, 07:34 PM
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Awesome poem, congrats on the yr!
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Old 05-15-2012, 07:35 PM
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Sugarbear,

You have given me some invaluable advice, and was one of the first members to reach out to me and made me feel better and not alone. I can't thank you enough. Congratulations on your one year sober!!!! You are a winner.
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Old 05-15-2012, 07:38 PM
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Congrats Sugarbear! I admit I was a lil taken back w/ you at first and your bluntness, but I am learning to be a little more blunt myself and I have seen a ton of growth in you!! I have also learned A LOT from you, you are an inspiration to me! Enjoy your one year and congratuations!!

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Old 05-15-2012, 07:39 PM
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CaiHong,

That was the best thing I could hear! Although "grizzly" on here, I was being very "tame" compared to how I was really feeling! Yes! I have come a long way! I don't ever remember being this serene or content in all of my 51 years of life. I thank-you for noticing!

Love,
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Old 05-15-2012, 07:47 PM
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Congrats sugarbear! Woooohooooo!
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Old 05-15-2012, 08:15 PM
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Well, ALRIGHT.... I am really, really happy for you.

I can "hear" it....

All the best....:day6
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