angie9

h Ive rung womans refuge theve given me a number to ring on Monday and if hes verbal Im to ring the police she siad who cares if your wasting their time better be safe than sorry and I have friends coming over soon. I might see the community constable on monday to come and have a talk to chris Im just getting so sick of this nice then nasty then nice like nothing has happened :0( Its the verbal thats worse I would much rather be clipped around the ear then told Im dumb useless fat a sponge and rloomer NZ is down under Australia :0)

angie9

oh I havent reached for the bottle either :0)

scaredykat

I'm so glad you called the woman's Refuge Angie. Remember, i know exactly what your going through. My 1st husband also has mental problems. But that's still NO EXCUSE to treat you that way. You deserve better in life and your kids too.

I have to go now. I'll be on latter if you want to talk. Take care of yourself.

Barb

Dee74

I'll be out for a bit today - second chance at that house Ang yay! - but I'll check in as I can.....
email me if you like

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NOMOMERLOTMAMMA

Angie,

I hate that you are going through this. I too was verbally abused by my ex. To think that your H has a mental problem worries me the most, will he even know or does he know what he's doing? That really scares me.

I'm glad that you've rung the shelter..please keep in touch with them and follow their advice. I think that you are being very strong in not picking up..that says alot about how strong you are and it will only make things worse..

I'll be thinking of you..please stay safe.

Karen

angie9

thanks (((huggs)))

rloomer

The only thing you need to do is take care of you. Make sure you're ok first.

Fact is, you'll never be able to take care of your children if you're not taken care of first. Love you sweetheart. I really hope you do the right thing.

All joking aside you are very much loved here and none of us want to see you well,
Just take care of yourself hun.

angie9

thanks rloomer I will :0) hey I can take my cockateil with me if I have to go to the womans refuge. I still want to see the community constable on monday and hopefully soon my friends will come over I just feel numb at the moment like Im not really here strange unsettling feeling :0(

rloomer

When I left my fiance I let her keep my two cockatiels I miss them

gypsytears

It's called the cycle of abuse Ang. That's how he's nice one minute and then things go all to hell. I know it's hard to think when you've been living like this for so long. I'm glad you're getting the courage up to talk to people that can help. I'm glad you reached out by posting here. That's a really big step and I proud of you hun . Please don't hesitate to call for help if you feel the the least bit in danger. I know you may think you can handle it, but the children are so young and it's scary for them. I'm not close by like Jules, but you can pm me if you want .