Bottoms Part 13
he'll be here, hon.
let it grow!
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: USA
Posts: 15,540
why the migrane and stiff neck, pd? something you get often?
cops came with a social worker. in our city, they can fine US for not letting her in since this is her legal address. but he didn't tell HER that. we signed the pwork to have a 10 day notice for eviction. and we knew the cop, so it did not arrest us. blah. social worker gave her more numbers to call and feels like her suicide threats are simply positioning. cop gave her a strong talking to and told her if he gets called again because we feel threatened, she breaks something, etc - he will arrest her for domestic violence. and we can get a restraining order. he told her he's stopping by in a day or so and if that she has not had that window fixed - he will reconsider his kindness
she says she's going to outpatient. we'll see..
at least now we really know our rights and have the wheels in motion for the eviction - which takes 90 days and a lawyer, by the way.
so. that's that. don't you just love our legal system? grrrrrrr...
cops came with a social worker. in our city, they can fine US for not letting her in since this is her legal address. but he didn't tell HER that. we signed the pwork to have a 10 day notice for eviction. and we knew the cop, so it did not arrest us. blah. social worker gave her more numbers to call and feels like her suicide threats are simply positioning. cop gave her a strong talking to and told her if he gets called again because we feel threatened, she breaks something, etc - he will arrest her for domestic violence. and we can get a restraining order. he told her he's stopping by in a day or so and if that she has not had that window fixed - he will reconsider his kindness
she says she's going to outpatient. we'll see..
at least now we really know our rights and have the wheels in motion for the eviction - which takes 90 days and a lawyer, by the way.
so. that's that. don't you just love our legal system? grrrrrrr...
IO Storm
Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Southern California
Posts: 18,436
K....
What a mixture of heartache and relief...
I know those feelings well....let go..hang on...what to do...what is the right
thing...
Sometimes (i am finding this out again)..the circumstances just evolve into
what is right.
Love you,
IO
What a mixture of heartache and relief...
I know those feelings well....let go..hang on...what to do...what is the right
thing...
Sometimes (i am finding this out again)..the circumstances just evolve into
what is right.
Love you,
IO
not a greeter
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: padmasana
Posts: 13,927
Hi Tad... welcome!!!
Sorry you're not feeling well PD. I hope taking a break for the day helps.
Hi Dee!
Hi Sherry!
K... the wheels of justice. Maybe the slowness will be of everyone's benefit. While you will eventually get some relief, it does give the daughter another incentive to get her act together???
Row the mayor isn't having his people answer my messages today either. Wait! We are his people!!! Time to ring Mrs. Stoney again
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Sorry you're not feeling well PD. I hope taking a break for the day helps.
Hi Dee
!Hi Sherry
!K... the wheels of justice. Maybe the slowness will be of everyone's benefit. While you will eventually get some relief, it does give the daughter another incentive to get her act together???
Row the mayor isn't having his people answer my messages today either. Wait! We are his people!!! Time to ring Mrs. Stoney again
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Member
Join Date: Dec 2003
Posts: 12,136
Well, K, it sounds as though you all have clarity about the whole situation, and daughter will know the legal consequences should she return and threaten you all. I'm glad for that, and it sounds like the cop was pretty decent.
Hi Teej, Sherry, Gyps!
Stoney better be at a meeting - that man brings out the codie in me.
I've got relapse prevention in an hour, then home group, so I better get my bottom moving. Love and hugs to all. Extra big hug for K and PD who are both having a tough go of things today. Love you all.
Hi Teej, Sherry, Gyps!
Stoney better be at a meeting - that man brings out the codie in me.
I've got relapse prevention in an hour, then home group, so I better get my bottom moving. Love and hugs to all. Extra big hug for K and PD who are both having a tough go of things today. Love you all.
let it grow!
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: USA
Posts: 15,540
carry on, row row! thanks!
(cop is sober since 1979 - he understood completely. he eats lunch down at a diner by our house. hubby knows him. i sat by him in there once, and he was reading the big book.)
(cop is sober since 1979 - he understood completely. he eats lunch down at a diner by our house. hubby knows him. i sat by him in there once, and he was reading the big book.)
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