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Old 10-31-2021, 04:08 PM
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Class of November Support Thread 2021 part 1


this is the support thread for everyone who wants to quit drugs, alcohol or any kind of addiction this month of
November 2021

come and join us!


October 2021thread is here
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...art-2-a-5.html (Class of October 2021 support thread Part 2)
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Old 10-31-2021, 07:29 PM
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It's day four. Very early days yet. Just going to relax for the minute. Recovery my body, I had a few falls, chafing on my recent bender.

Might go have a strong coffee.
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It's day four. Very early days yet. Just going to relax for the minute. Recovery my body, I had a few falls, chafing on my recent bender.

Might go have a strong coffee. I suppose there's a long day ahead. I can make small choices to improve my life. Though it's getting dark earlier from tonight.
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Old 10-31-2021, 08:38 PM
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Listening to This Naked Mind. Her promises seem farfetched at first but I'll see what she has to say.
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Welcome to the thread FF

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I think I'll hang out here. Sober in October but still reeling from my bender.
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Brushed my teeth, listened to more of This Naked Mind. Think that might be the height of my productivity today. Maybe I'll take a shower. Tomorrow will be better. I think I'm depressed lol.

Early days are tough. I'd go for a walk but my thighs are chafing.

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Hopefully more people will join you soon FF

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morning x
im in for sober nov x day 70 for me i think , so still hanging in there. I am also stopping smoking today, so got the patch all ready and also i have to go to chemist to sort out the no smoking plan thing they have, so that be when its open.

nothing much else to add except im still ill from this virus thing, but fingers crossed i maybe feeling a little better this morning.

will leave it there for now, look forward to see who else joins for a sober november month xx
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Good to have you join us erratic

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im in for sober nov x day 70 for me i think , so still hanging in there. I am also stopping smoking today, so got the patch all ready and also i have to go to chemist to sort out the no smoking plan thing they have, so that be when its open.

nothing much else to add except im still ill from this virus thing, but fingers crossed i maybe feeling a little better this morning.

will leave it there for now, look forward to see who else joins for a sober november month xx
good luck quitting smoking. I managed two months with the vape but I missed the cigs. Now I mostly vape and treat myself with a cig. Would be nice to be off both.

The patch does work well though. I had to be on it in hospital when they weren't letting us out to smoke because of covid. It helped a lot.
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Something good about November. I'll be a year seizure free this month and can start driving lessons.
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thanks dee and thanks FF x i found the patches good also and i used inhalator last time aswell, so i do hope to make a good stretch for doing this.
good job on day 4 and i do hope u get ur license back, it may make a diffrence in helping u keep sober as u can drive about when any cravings come or something xx

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Plus I live with my parents who don't drive. It'd be nice to be able to taxi them places as they're getting on, but that means being sober at all times. Would feel like I'm looking after them after they looked after me for so long.
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Just waiting for the meeting to start. Got here early.
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I left the meeting early. People had arrived and were chatting before the meeting started and my paranoid ass was examining everything they said for hidden meanings relating to me. :/ Not sure I'm in the right headspace for AA right at this minute.

I'll continue listening to This Naked Mind. This Naked Mind, SR, meditation, prayer, exercise will have to be the cornerstones of my recovery until my mental state settles down a little.

Mostly I'm so relieved to be through the worst of withdrawal and I don't want to go down that road again.
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Maybe you could try an online meeting FF?

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Maybe you could try an online meeting FF?

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It was an online. Same thing with the chitchat before. And then I know from experience when people start sharing I'll be imagining it's all directed at me and they're trying to **** with me.
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I used to swear my addiction was smarter than I was. My brain was always able to find reasons - really quite reasonable valid sounding reasons - why I couldn’t do something about my addiction.

Eventually tho it was change or die - and I found I could use my intelligence and resourcefulness to get around the obstacles that had stopped me before.

I hope you can find a way to do that too.

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FF, you can do this. You have done it before, it's time to tweak those plans of yours and do everything you can to stay sober. You are worth it!

Day nine here, and all is well.
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