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Old 06-17-2017, 12:46 PM
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Originally Posted by blondsober View Post
Hi Casey,

Going to a friend's ranch to do some goofing around and wine
tasting/BBQ. I am going to get up early and run so I feel fit and
skinny and not tempted to drink. Then I will be the driver for
the tasting, which I like, and will take pics and notes of the goofy
things my friends say. Hopefully they don't get too toasted,
because it just gets obnoxious after a while. But of course this
time EYE will be the one toning it down whereas usually I am the
one pushing the limits!

But drinking red wine on a hot afternoon doesn't sound that
good anyway! (I am the one that would have half a bottle before
we even got to the wineries, then another full bottle while manning
the BBQ!

Thanks for asking and have a great weekend!
Blondesober, be careful. I got a bad feeling about this one
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGLHW1hY-CY
It seriously sounds like you're tempting fate with this. I know you'll be okay, but wouldn't it have been better and easier to blow off the BBQ and chaffeuring? Let them get their own driver.
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Old 06-17-2017, 12:56 PM
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Day 11......

Cravings have eased today, but still not sleeping properly. I'm still waking up around 3-4 am and then I can't go back to sleep. Hopefully over time that will sort itself out.

Quiet weekend for me, have declined all social invitations as I know I would be encouraged to drink and would cave in, don't feel strong enough yet. Plan on working all weekend instead.

Have a good weekend June people.......
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Old 06-17-2017, 01:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Culture View Post
Day 11......

Cravings have eased today, but still not sleeping properly. I'm still waking up around 3-4 am and then I can't go back to sleep. Hopefully over time that will sort itself out.

Quiet weekend for me, have declined all social invitations as I know I would be encouraged to drink and would cave in, don't feel strong enough yet. Plan on working all weekend instead.

Have a good weekend June people.......
Same here. Not sleeping well, cravings are not bad but still, I'm not strong to social activities. It seems that more you want to calm down socially more your phone rings. I'm committed to being sober today. Day 5.
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Old 06-17-2017, 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted by CaseyW View Post
Have a wonderful sober Saturday/Australian Sunday, Junebugs! Remember a drink isn't the answer but is instead the problem. Ask for help if you need it. Help others here as much as you can. Don't take that first drink no matter what!
Thanks Casey, so good to remember! It's not the answer but is the problem! That just resonated with me!

Hey everyone, day 16! I'm feeling blah today and I'm not sure why.
CnGY, I'm going to get that book!
I feel like I want to immerse myself in different recovery methods and see what works best for me.

It's pretty darn hot in the Bay Area today. I hope everyone has a good sober day! Will check in later.
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Old 06-17-2017, 02:27 PM
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Hi ,

After being a class of december 2015 member, i relapsed after 3 months of sober life. Like most of us i thought after this periode i could start drinking moderate. But i fooled myself. Went back to daily consumpion of quantities more than a v12 engine on full throtle. Thank God i regained the willpower and am now a proud member of class june 2017. 5 days already behind me. And it feels like i broke out of this prisoncell called alcohol again. This time to never return back. Not even a peek back over the shoulder..
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Old 06-17-2017, 03:07 PM
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This is my first post ever! I'm so glad I found this site. It's been so helpful for me. I'm 7 days sober !!!
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Old 06-17-2017, 03:47 PM
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This is my first post ever! I'm so glad I found this site. It's been so helpful for me. I'm 7 days sober !!!
Welcome and Congratulations on 7 days.. taking the 1st steps is a big achievment..
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Old 06-17-2017, 03:52 PM
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Colette! This place is awesome ~ You're in good company!

Hope everyone is having a fabulous weekend
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Old 06-17-2017, 04:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Katsmeeyow View Post
Thanks Casey, so good to remember! It's not the answer but is the problem! That just resonated with me!

Hey everyone, day 16! I'm feeling blah today and I'm not sure why.
CnGY, I'm going to get that book!
I feel like I want to immerse myself in different recovery methods and see what works best for me.

It's pretty darn hot in the Bay Area today. I hope everyone has a good sober day! Will check in later.
It really is hot here! I'm only on day 1 - I didn't know the human body could sweat so much (sorry for the tmi)
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Old 06-17-2017, 06:01 PM
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So, I'm nearly at the end of my first calendar month and I received two compliments today, both saying "it looks like I've lost weight".

One of them from my brother. You know siblings, they never compliment you!
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Old 06-17-2017, 06:02 PM
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Beedebea, hang in there! I've got 2 fans one me!

Welcome Tea and Colette122! Please stay with us, we've got a good group going. It's helping me and I hear you Tea, I've done the moderation attempts too.
It works good for a while but then I start going to back to everyday hideaway drinking in the evening.
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Old 06-17-2017, 06:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Beedebea View Post
It really is hot here! I'm only on day 1 - I didn't know the human body could sweat so much (sorry for the tmi)
My first few days I drank a two litre bottle of lemonade daily. The sweat and the thirst were almost debilitating.
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Old 06-17-2017, 06:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Tynesider22 View Post
So, I'm nearly at the end of my first calendar month and I received two compliments today, both saying "it looks like I've lost weight".

One of them from my brother. You know siblings, they never compliment you!
Ohh that is awesome!! I'm looking forward to that nice side benefit!
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Old 06-17-2017, 06:19 PM
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Welcome to SR, Colette122!

Hope everyone is having a wonderful, sober Saturday night. Stick close, post often. You're not in this alone!
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Day 15, I've made it to 2 weeks! Feeling great.. but I haven't socialised yet so that will be the real test..I'm avoiding it tbh..
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Old 06-17-2017, 08:45 PM
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That is great Red on 15 days!

I'm the opposite, I'm avoiding being alone for long periods of time and even cooking...my two triggers! I never drank socially the last 3 years so I'm fine being out with friends and they are drinking around me and I don't care.
I associate my drinking with alone and hiding it. UGH!
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Back again.

I'm afraid I'll never learn.
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Old 06-18-2017, 01:58 AM
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drinking has been slowly escalating since the last time I posted here. Way out of control with bad decisions and another blackout on Thursday. I can mark my life by drunken moments. I hate it.
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Old 06-18-2017, 02:15 AM
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Your past need not be a determinant on your future BBF

Even a slow learner like me finally understood that drinking and I were a bad match.

Welcome back

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Old 06-18-2017, 02:45 AM
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Originally Posted by Katsmeeyow View Post
That is great Red on 15 days!

I'm the opposite, I'm avoiding being alone for long periods of time and even cooking...my two triggers! I never drank socially the last 3 years so I'm fine being out with friends and they are drinking around me and I don't care.
I associate my drinking with alone and hiding it. UGH!
Thanks Katsmeeyow.. I don't socialise a lot as I don't have a lot of friends here in my home town but I do drink wine with my family and have wine tastings etc..my association is both alone and socialising, cooking being the biggest one really..
My mum, aunties and my best friend/cousin all love wine, fine wines and we have been to wineries all over the world.. but today I successfully went out with my mum to a cafe and only had a hot. chocolate, for me amazing as I normally have a wine and next choice would be coffee but I have given up 3 cups of coffee a day too.. so a winning afternoon at the tapering end if day 15 now..
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