New here, need all the advice I can get..please.
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New here, need all the advice I can get..please.
Hi all,
Hope everyone is doing well in their journeys towards sobriety/recovery. I joined the forum not because I am an addict however my fiance is addicted to cocaine in various forms. Yesterday morning he left for rehab. In the two years that we've been engaged I've hardly ever been away from him and now he's gone for the next 34 days and I'm just looking for some support.
-Me
Hope everyone is doing well in their journeys towards sobriety/recovery. I joined the forum not because I am an addict however my fiance is addicted to cocaine in various forms. Yesterday morning he left for rehab. In the two years that we've been engaged I've hardly ever been away from him and now he's gone for the next 34 days and I'm just looking for some support.
-Me
Welcome! Glad you are here. You may want to post something also in the Friends/Family--substance abuse forum as well. There you will find support from people who have been where you are/dealt with what you are going through. Welcome! You are not alone. (I am an alcoholic/addict in recovery and if there is anything I can do to help....just let me know.)
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Welcome! Glad you are here. You may want to post something also in the Friends/Family--substance abuse forum as well. There you will find support from people who have been where you are/dealt with what you are going through. Welcome! You are not alone. (I am an alcoholic/addict in recovery and if there is anything I can do to help....just let me know.)
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Posts: 5
Welcome! Glad you are here. You may want to post something also in the Friends/Family--substance abuse forum as well. There you will find support from people who have been where you are/dealt with what you are going through. Welcome! You are not alone. (I am an alcoholic/addict in recovery and if there is anything I can do to help....just let me know.)
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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Hi all,
Hope everyone is doing well in their journeys towards sobriety/recovery. I joined the forum not because I am an addict however my fiance is addicted to cocaine in various forms. Yesterday morning he left for rehab. In the two years that we've been engaged I've hardly ever been away from him and now he's gone for the next 34 days and I'm just looking for some support.
-Me
Hope everyone is doing well in their journeys towards sobriety/recovery. I joined the forum not because I am an addict however my fiance is addicted to cocaine in various forms. Yesterday morning he left for rehab. In the two years that we've been engaged I've hardly ever been away from him and now he's gone for the next 34 days and I'm just looking for some support.
-Me
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Angelina, I am not an addict but my boyfriend is, we live together and he is leaving for detox monday, we really have struggled hard with his heroin/pills addiction. He has never been sober for longer than six months, and I am really scared. Hes done detox, holding program for the past 5 years, and like I said its never really worked. He has not ever shot heroin since we have been together but he has sniffed it and also got badly into perks and oxys, he feels that because he hasnt put a needle in his arm hes ok, but trust me he sniffs about 3-4 pills and he has the same effect, terrible nodding out, drooling, anger one second then happy then babbeling the next. He now realizes the problem and wants to do something about it. He has been doing this since 25 he is now 30, all of his brothers are addicts, one is two years clean the other a year just out of a jail program and now on his own, we are hoping for the best, the youngest brother is still running badly. I have no one to talk to, I am very nervous, I tried tough love, tried going to meetings with him, i listen and talk to him all the time, I have read about it, ect. I lost my uncle to heroin overdose in 2000, my cousin just passed in january he was 22 same thing my best friends mother in 2005. I am really scared he seems like he wants it, I know I cant fix him, he has put me through hell beyond hell do you have any tips for me? Anything that has helped you that a loved one did? Thanks for listening, you should be really proud of yourself, I wish you all of the best in your recovery!!
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